It will only get worse and the longer you stay, the deeper the scars. You'll have much more energy to figure out stuff once you're out of this abusive relationship. You need to leave now.
i had an ex lose his mind at me because i paid my own credit card bill one day late. he broke a cutting board over it. it was something that completely did not concern him in any way whatsoever.
needless to say this was not the only incident of this type from him.
Yeah she doesn't feel comfortable when she is really down, and blames herself and cries a lot.. I always feel bad, because she doesn't want me to talk about it in the moment and doesn't want to be touched..
if Sami divorces Tom, mark wouldnโt have a problem with the friendship? Does he have a problem with toms affairs or is he Turing a blind eye to that?
Some women have high sex drives, some men have low sex drives, some people have no sex drive (asexual). Everyone is different. It honestly sounds like you two just werenโt compatible.
If you feel yours should be higher, you can talk to your doctor about it, maybe run some tests or look at any medications you may be taking. But that also may just be how youโre wired.
Itโs also worth asking yourself what it really is that you want out of a romantic relationship. Then be up front with potential partners about what that is.
You confront her. Tell her she is way out of line and so is your BF. Your bed and your BF are off limits and if either canโt deal with that then she can have him. If she doesnโt back way off the next time you wonโt be so damn nice about it to either of them. Say this in front of both of them. If your BF has a problem with this, then he isnโt for you. Which will mean he is choosing her. You will find out real quick who he really wants after you do this, because itโs obvious she wants him.
Thank you. I wrote and rewrote this a few times. Its really weird to describe, I see her as more of a person who i want to spend my life with as my partner but i wonder how much of that is that i'm getting older. I know I'd be very very happy with her.
Wait so she cheated twice on her previous boyfriend? And all because she got some attention from other guys; bro if validation is all it takes for her to step out on relationships thatโs a major red flag not a check point. But it sounds like you are mad infatuated with her so I guess just enjoy the ride while it lasts and stop worrying; you worrying about it will not stop her from cheating. If she cheats deal with it later and just tell yourself it was bound to happen and that it was only your turn. Good luck! โ?
Also pretty much every shit rapper who never made it just goes on about bitches and hoes lol
Rap is supposed to be a form expression and about delivering a message to the listener. The only message heโs delivering is he hasnโt finished puberty and worships the cliche โrapper gangstaโ life.
Hopefully he matures as an artist and person but right now its a massive cringe fest.
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It will only get worse and the longer you stay, the deeper the scars. You'll have much more energy to figure out stuff once you're out of this abusive relationship. You need to leave now.
Or the boyfriend just uses her as a bang maid while the love of his life decides whether she wants him or not?
See, we can all inject โcontextโ.
Good God. YES. GET TF OUT OF THIS.
i had an ex lose his mind at me because i paid my own credit card bill one day late. he broke a cutting board over it. it was something that completely did not concern him in any way whatsoever.
needless to say this was not the only incident of this type from him.
Yeah she doesn't feel comfortable when she is really down, and blames herself and cries a lot.. I always feel bad, because she doesn't want me to talk about it in the moment and doesn't want to be touched..
You have become your own wife's side chick.
if Sami divorces Tom, mark wouldnโt have a problem with the friendship? Does he have a problem with toms affairs or is he Turing a blind eye to that?
I think my post is self explanatory
Some women have high sex drives, some men have low sex drives, some people have no sex drive (asexual). Everyone is different. It honestly sounds like you two just werenโt compatible.
If you feel yours should be higher, you can talk to your doctor about it, maybe run some tests or look at any medications you may be taking. But that also may just be how youโre wired.
Itโs also worth asking yourself what it really is that you want out of a romantic relationship. Then be up front with potential partners about what that is.
You confront her. Tell her she is way out of line and so is your BF. Your bed and your BF are off limits and if either canโt deal with that then she can have him. If she doesnโt back way off the next time you wonโt be so damn nice about it to either of them. Say this in front of both of them. If your BF has a problem with this, then he isnโt for you. Which will mean he is choosing her. You will find out real quick who he really wants after you do this, because itโs obvious she wants him.
You should talk about yourself to someone who will actually listen to you and value the things you say.
I donโt want to sound mean but your boyfriend seems kinda self-centered and uncaruing. Okay maybe a little mean. Go and find a better salmon
Thank you. I wrote and rewrote this a few times. Its really weird to describe, I see her as more of a person who i want to spend my life with as my partner but i wonder how much of that is that i'm getting older. I know I'd be very very happy with her.
Wait so she cheated twice on her previous boyfriend? And all because she got some attention from other guys; bro if validation is all it takes for her to step out on relationships thatโs a major red flag not a check point. But it sounds like you are mad infatuated with her so I guess just enjoy the ride while it lasts and stop worrying; you worrying about it will not stop her from cheating. If she cheats deal with it later and just tell yourself it was bound to happen and that it was only your turn. Good luck! โ?
Also pretty much every shit rapper who never made it just goes on about bitches and hoes lol
Rap is supposed to be a form expression and about delivering a message to the listener. The only message heโs delivering is he hasnโt finished puberty and worships the cliche โrapper gangstaโ life.
Hopefully he matures as an artist and person but right now its a massive cringe fest.