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Where in here did it say she wouldnt get therapy? Chances are she probably hasnt even thought of it at that point because nothing triggered her trauma before. I absolutely do agree she should get therapy and I hope she can get over herself because OP did absolutely nothing wrong. NO ONE IS THE ASSHOLE HERE.
I know you’re right but the way I’m perceiving it is rejection and confusion. He says things like “i want to get married to you and have kids with you” but he can’t say i love you. How does that make any sense?
It’s on you. Don’t go to dinner if you are grieving. It wasn’t his cat so of course he doesn’t really care. I’m sorry for your loss but it is your responsibility to deal with your feelings not his.
She absolutely should tell you if she has a history with someone you both have a relationship with and it’s alarming that she’s trying to put this back on you. Honestly it’s your relationship and it’s your call but all the flags I see are red
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Looks at OPs responses on this thread. She’s a shitty person with a shitty personality, she needs therapy + soul searching and self development.
Hmmmm. I’m circumcised and totally against male and female genital mutilation. Why aren’t you?
Where in here did it say she wouldnt get therapy? Chances are she probably hasnt even thought of it at that point because nothing triggered her trauma before. I absolutely do agree she should get therapy and I hope she can get over herself because OP did absolutely nothing wrong. NO ONE IS THE ASSHOLE HERE.
They’re both being shitty. Someone else being shitty first doesn’t absolve you of shitty behaviour after the fact.
I know you’re right but the way I’m perceiving it is rejection and confusion. He says things like “i want to get married to you and have kids with you” but he can’t say i love you. How does that make any sense?
Because she sprung it on him whilst wedding planning? Why is that so hot to understand?
It’s on you. Don’t go to dinner if you are grieving. It wasn’t his cat so of course he doesn’t really care. I’m sorry for your loss but it is your responsibility to deal with your feelings not his.
She absolutely should tell you if she has a history with someone you both have a relationship with and it’s alarming that she’s trying to put this back on you. Honestly it’s your relationship and it’s your call but all the flags I see are red
Lawyer is trying to shame European of not correctly writing English? So what in your humble opinion those first two sentences should look like? Please teach me. I’m all open to you advice)