It sounds like he’s the one that’s afraid of his mom as he won’t make a move without her approval. That isn’t going to stop if the two of you get married.
Here’s one problem, maybe the biggest one: she has to be the one who does all the compromises. She has to accept that you have tons more leisure than she, and always will. She has to give up her dreams of buying a home, building a nice retirement for both of you, give up traveling together, and what about kids? She will have to accept full time working forever. What are you willing to compromise in order to ensure she is as cared for as you in this relationship?
Wait, so you repeatedly kept telling her you had feelings for her and she never reciprocated it? That is almost stalker behavior, for one, and completely obsessive and possessive, for two.
She broke up by text?? This says a lot about her. Time to move on.
It sounds like he’s the one that’s afraid of his mom as he won’t make a move without her approval. That isn’t going to stop if the two of you get married.
Here’s one problem, maybe the biggest one: she has to be the one who does all the compromises. She has to accept that you have tons more leisure than she, and always will. She has to give up her dreams of buying a home, building a nice retirement for both of you, give up traveling together, and what about kids? She will have to accept full time working forever. What are you willing to compromise in order to ensure she is as cared for as you in this relationship?
You should propose. It’s 2023.
Wait, so you repeatedly kept telling her you had feelings for her and she never reciprocated it? That is almost stalker behavior, for one, and completely obsessive and possessive, for two.
Huh, he didn't deny it? Say he loves you and would never do that?
Either way, it's doubtful that the letter is fake. How would they know your address? Did they include any details? Anything specific?
Were there any other times he acted strange?