0 views
Andrew, 28 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start live! video press there
Live Live Sex Chat rooms Andrew
Date: November 25, 2022
AmateurPub
WTF?! No. The last guy I dated was 6’5”, 325 lbs. We were together for 6 years and I think he only once hurt me, and that was a total accidental head bonk.
I cannot believe this is accidental, OP. He either doesn’t think it’s that big a deal, or he doesn’t care. Neither is healthy.
If he gets panicky and starts getting
Doesn't matter how you look like, if a girl's over you then you make the move.
I read the update OP posted. I’m still a little suspish. I feel like he could have still invited you to the “after party” even if they limited the amount of people who could come. Still confused on why he would tell that girl that she was too pretty for his roommate, let alone why tell you that. Then for him to have messages to his roommate saying there’s a girl for him at the house.
Idk.
It was a good step that you opened up to him about your feelings. Keep that up. I don’t think it’s weird that you haven’t met his work friends even after 1.5 yrs. That’s really not that long. If it’s really a big deal, tell him you’d like to meet them, and let him know it would make you feel more comfortable.
Whatever you do, just be safe. This has red flags and bad vibes all over it
Because alot of people (men too) only go after people way out of their league and still complain, IDK your dating level, IDK the dating level of the men you are pursuing, the only things I know about you are from 1 or 2 paragraphs and from alot of people are doing wrong.
I want to advise the best I can, if you don't want to take it, well that's alright with me, I understand we must skeptical, alot of people haev bad advice.
Are you saying I am being too picky? For me sexual compatibility is definitely within the top 5 qualities I am looking for in a relationship
My ex used to be like this too, he'd stand outside the bathroom door and ask if I was playing with myself while using the toilet, he even set up a hidden camera in my bedroom to 'catch me' playing with myself after I had showered.
From OP: He makes rape jokes a lot too, but says it’s just his way of coping with an awkward situation even though it upsets me.
I don’t know what to make of your original post (him having sex with other women because you’re still traumatized by past SA), but I sure as hell know what to make of this. It’s extremely disrespectful to you, and you should not tolerate that.
He's too scared to break up with you at his big age of 37 years old. Smh
Leave him, report it and be glad you don't have kids.
Have you thought that she already got it and is delaying because she doesn’t want to say yes?
Are you sure he isn’t bad?
“You deserved to be sexually abused from the age of twelve and beaten to near-death at the age of sixteen because at some point in your future, a married man might sleep with you” omg ur wisdom ? I see the error of my ways smh ?
Historically, and even recently men of an older age have often had relationships with younger women. What is coming out about these relationships now is the difference in the power base. If you were 30 and 40 it wouldn’t be so difficult as you would both be well within your life. Jobs, maturity levels. When you’re 20 years old, you are literally just going out into the world so your experience level is very minimal. If you like her, you can test it out but when you start to feel controlling and like you have all the answers, you need to be careful and let her develop on her own. It doesn’t mean you can’t help ADVISOR be there for her like an ordinary partner would but is somebody who married a much younger person? It’s naked to have an equal partnership.
Damn. Not for her, for you. You may need a couple after a period of time. I’m so sorry you’re going through this
Wrong sub.
Dude. Really? Walk away! If nothing else you should free her so she can find someone equally as vacuous who can make her happy.
She isn't. Learn to read
Your dad shouldn't be doing that to people. I'm not even sure if your mom likes it. Just because someone does something all the time it's okay. Your girlfriend said something about her boundaries and you didn't listen. How can she trust you? The next time she might even leave you if you continue to be this of a pansy. I'm sure that your dad wouldn't like some guy Patton your mom's ass.
You could always try talking to a professional therapist to get to the root of your anxiety.
Especially since it's not like you can just part ways cleanly anymore. You lost that when you had kids with him.
OP, this is no joke. That is humiliating and abuse. You do not say anything to make him try to stop – you leave right away and tell someone you trust about his behavior.
Hooooooolly toxicity… do both of yourselves a favor and leave.
You're welcome. Best wishes for finding a good place to live.
“advice on how to deal with this?” Don’t. Just don’t deal with it. Imagine having children with a man like this. Or heck, a dinner date!? He needs to have very intensive therapy that may take years. He needs to have this prior to dating anyone.
Then say, “Your behavior is not adult-like as mature adults can handle people who do things necessary to live. If you can’t handle people eating or drinking like YOU DO YOURSELF, then you should remain single. Until then, bye!”
You’re an idiot
The question every married man has asked. Lol ?
I don't think she's into this relationship. She also can't handle her liquor. Do you really want a drunk apathetic girlfriend?
Let the cat sort it out amongst themselves as long as none of the cats are getting seriously hurt Let them work out the hierarchy.
It’s always nice when the trash takes itself out.
Do nothing. Don’t play into the drama. If you do anything at all, just tell your friend about the message. But honestly, she’s just an insecure drama queen. Don’t play into that.