And now it does feel like I mushed up feeling unsafe and frozen to creating a reason to feel hurt like you said. Like my fight and flight turned into a blaming game.
i completely get that when we are awake, but what is there to enjoy when we are both asleep? i guess i just wonder if there is more to it, be that feelings or whatever else.
Honestly tho! He straight up made a comment about how they would have to “wait weeks to get an appointment to remove it.” Like, does he think the uterus is an easy bake oven? If you can't handle waiting for a doctor's appointment to remove birth control, and can't handle multiple visits, you probably arent ready to have a child
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And now it does feel like I mushed up feeling unsafe and frozen to creating a reason to feel hurt like you said. Like my fight and flight turned into a blaming game.
Yea, I don’t really care too much. Just found it odd
i completely get that when we are awake, but what is there to enjoy when we are both asleep? i guess i just wonder if there is more to it, be that feelings or whatever else.
You have a pillow princess. Sounds like you’re not compatible
Simple solution you divorce. He wanted his cake and eat it to.
At this point both of you are better off with ought each other
OK, so? They were both adults when they met.
If that relationship was when he was 25 or 30. Then that would be an issue.
What advice do you want here?
You can't change what happened in the past. Either get over it. Or break up.
Honestly tho! He straight up made a comment about how they would have to “wait weeks to get an appointment to remove it.” Like, does he think the uterus is an easy bake oven? If you can't handle waiting for a doctor's appointment to remove birth control, and can't handle multiple visits, you probably arent ready to have a child