She's suggested going to family. We are fortunate to have family who are stable and comfortable but they're on the brink of retiring and I don't feel comfortable with that even though I know my family at least wouldn't think twice about helping
Never let another person have so much power over you. Take your power back. Work on your mental health. Join a gym…that is very good for mental clarity. It will take time but you will move on from this…stronger and better. Go to an animal shelter and adopt a puppy, it won't replace your other puppy but you will be saving a life and you will have a friend for life and maybe this puppy will save your life. We all need someone to love and for someone to love us back.
No, that's not how it works. Financial fraud is financial fraud. You can “give” someone your credit card. They can't “use” it without your permission. If they do, they are committing a crime.
Unauthorized Use
When a person uses a card without a card holder's permission, this is illegal. Under U.S. law, if the person reports unauthorized use, he is only responsible for a maximum of $50 in charges. Either the retailer or the credit card company will be responsible for any charges made without proper authorization. However, if a spouse's name is on the card, it will not be considered an unauthorized use.
This isn't a shared line of credit. If at any time you write a check, or use a credit/debit card, in someone else's name without their permission, even if you live with them, it's fraud.
OP, call your non emergency police line, they will tell you the same thing.
She's suggested going to family. We are fortunate to have family who are stable and comfortable but they're on the brink of retiring and I don't feel comfortable with that even though I know my family at least wouldn't think twice about helping
He probably needs longer rehab, but he needs to take that seriously.
Because you can’t take a hint? He probably has told you a dozen times but you don’t hear it.
Your looks have no bearing on this matter. Let him go and hopefully you'll get some grand babies soon.
Also, look at this as a new start for you. Try dating or a new hobby.
You can be honest without being hurtful. Just say you are interested in her romantically and just want to be friends.
Never let another person have so much power over you. Take your power back. Work on your mental health. Join a gym…that is very good for mental clarity. It will take time but you will move on from this…stronger and better. Go to an animal shelter and adopt a puppy, it won't replace your other puppy but you will be saving a life and you will have a friend for life and maybe this puppy will save your life. We all need someone to love and for someone to love us back.
First grow a backbone. You are way too codependent
Yeah I doubt he will change. I have tried talking to him and nothing has been fixed. I just feel so scared of change.
No, that's not how it works. Financial fraud is financial fraud. You can “give” someone your credit card. They can't “use” it without your permission. If they do, they are committing a crime.
Unauthorized Use
When a person uses a card without a card holder's permission, this is illegal. Under U.S. law, if the person reports unauthorized use, he is only responsible for a maximum of $50 in charges. Either the retailer or the credit card company will be responsible for any charges made without proper authorization. However, if a spouse's name is on the card, it will not be considered an unauthorized use.
This isn't a shared line of credit. If at any time you write a check, or use a credit/debit card, in someone else's name without their permission, even if you live with them, it's fraud.
OP, call your non emergency police line, they will tell you the same thing.
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