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Staying in touch with an ex can be necessary, say, when children are involved. Being amicable with an ex due to the breakup being not nasty is something that happens a lot.
BUT…
There is a history there. Emotions. Familiarity. And the chance of hooking up, especially after drinking, is so high that saying it won't happen is the rarity.
Of COURSE he wants to spend the weekend at your apartment, drinking, etc. He knows he'll hookup with you.
What you do is your decision.
Just know, that IF you allow it, that WILL likely happen. If you're ok with it? Fine. If not, don't allow it and say no.
This is the exact reason many people have ex's as THE boundary when they get into relationships and the SO says, “but my ex is my FRIEND and I'm JUST going to see them”. No. Too much history. Too many feelings. Too much of a chance that there will be a negative impact on the relationship.
What’s your thought process? You think someone else is going to make you happier? Or you think sexual experiences with strangers are going to be worth foregoing your current happiness?
Sadly a lot of women feel this way. They are repulsed when men show signs of weakness. They expect their man to always be strong and manly. But in reality that isn't the case. Everyone shows signs of weakness eventually. We are only human so its natural. I would suggest telling her off the next time she brings it up. An if she keeps doing it leave her ass.
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Staying in touch with an ex can be necessary, say, when children are involved. Being amicable with an ex due to the breakup being not nasty is something that happens a lot.
BUT…
There is a history there. Emotions. Familiarity. And the chance of hooking up, especially after drinking, is so high that saying it won't happen is the rarity.
Of COURSE he wants to spend the weekend at your apartment, drinking, etc. He knows he'll hookup with you.
What you do is your decision.
Just know, that IF you allow it, that WILL likely happen. If you're ok with it? Fine. If not, don't allow it and say no.
This is the exact reason many people have ex's as THE boundary when they get into relationships and the SO says, “but my ex is my FRIEND and I'm JUST going to see them”. No. Too much history. Too many feelings. Too much of a chance that there will be a negative impact on the relationship.
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Troll
Do not buy a house with him without marriage. Most homes purchases have a thirty year mortgage. How can he commit to years towards a home but you?
Someone on reddit said this in a similar post- He wants your resources to enrich himself but he will not marry you.
talk to him, let him know what you want, and determine if he is the ready for that. If not, leave and take your half of the house money with you.
Thank you ?
Fake .
Why isn’t all of that, very different perspective in your OP?
Congrats on your graduation, but there’s no way in hell I’d ever miss my brother’s wedding…
What’s your thought process? You think someone else is going to make you happier? Or you think sexual experiences with strangers are going to be worth foregoing your current happiness?
Sadly a lot of women feel this way. They are repulsed when men show signs of weakness. They expect their man to always be strong and manly. But in reality that isn't the case. Everyone shows signs of weakness eventually. We are only human so its natural. I would suggest telling her off the next time she brings it up. An if she keeps doing it leave her ass.