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Date: November 23, 2022
Alcoholism and addiction both run in his family, and alcoholism in mine as well (both my parents are recovered alcoholics, and I've definitely tried telling myself he's not THAT bad because he doesn't get belligerent like they did. But also, at the same time…I should know better).
I know he's for sure self medicating. He's home 90% of the time, with over half of that being home alone (kids are both in school all day). That alone would drive most people up the wall. I'm almost completely positive he has anxiety and depression he's trying to cope with, but he'd never admit to that, let alone get help for either.
I trust him with the kids, but like I said they're in school all day so he only has to get them on and off the bus (and then Sundays I work too, but they just stay home all day). I'm home within an hour of them getting home. He doesn't drive at all, so that's not a concern. He usually doesn't drink until evening, typically after I'm home, sometimes a beer or two before. Though, he doesn't really do anything with the kids unless I convince him to, so he just feeds them and they do their own thing when I'm not home. I'm not sure if that's related to his drinking at all though. Maybe it is,I've never put the two together until literally just now.
I know I'm almost just as much to blame for it though, and I don't know how I let it get to this point. Or how to get back from here, for that matter.
My ex (my oldest child's biological father) was an addict, and I left him within 2 days of finding out (I was young, oblivious, and heavily in denial). I gave him an ultimatum, a decade later he's still in active heroin addiction. This is another part where I just realized I apparently tell myself my current partner isn't THAT bad because he's not like my ex, but at the same time, I also should know better…why I somehow tend to forget alcoholism is also addiction is beyond me?
Dear OP, You are clearly in an abusive narcissistic relationship. The first step of a narcissist is to put someone on a pedestal, so that the other quickly falls in love and they often want to live together quickly, get married and/or have children. After which contact with family and friends slowly becomes less and less until there is no more contact. By isolating you, so you don't dare to leave the relationship, because you're afraid to be alone. Forcing you to do things you don't want to, then showing regret, then being angry again because “you would do it, if you love him”, then showing regret again and especially blaming you for everything, is typical narcissistic behavior.
Please get away from him. It's scary, I really get that, but he will continue until you completely lose yourself. He doesn't love you, he's not capable of that, he's in love with the power he has over you.
What if she burns the bridge with her parents and loses their support and you don’t end up proposing? If you plan on doing it in a few months what is the difference if marriage is something you both want?
Unless it is for tax reasons or debt I don’t understand people who want to live together and do wife/husband things like setting up a home without being married. I get that it works for a lot of people but you are asking her to burn an important bridge without the piece of paper that would protect her. I have seen these types of arrangements or uncommitted commitments turn messy(especially for 1 of the people) in the long term if they don’t work out.
If that is a deal breaker to you then let her go and go on your way.
Penguins is right. Unless her diet is ridiculously out of whack, flatulence isn’t abnormal per se and discussing it would just embarrass her. I guess you could research medications but you’d want to be 100% absolutely sure there’s a solution before opening Pandora’s Butt. (Sorry…I had to.)
This is a tough one.
Have a calm conversation with her and gently ask her why she wants cameras in the house. If it is a safety issue, maybe you can find a way to compromise so that she still feels safe. Explain to her that you feel violated and concerned as to her lack of trust. I think the best thing you can do is ask where she’s coming from and consider her perspective, because there’s obviously a reason she did this without consulting you first.