Not at all. He doesn't seem to be hiding anything. I fact that fact he's so open and such is probably a big indicator he's not cheating on you with her. Is he probably in love? Sure but not in a “hey let's hook up” kinda way there are different types of love and from what I've seen written here it seems like non-blood sibling love. Like brother and sister.
My opinion just move on , don’t bother yourself with telling a lying person , and it’s very obvious this person he lies for what benefits him , so if you decide to stay he will keep lying to you for many things … just move on with your life because you deserve better.
When it happened to me in my mid 20’s, it was also a “friend” not a professional situation like a paid modeling job.
You’re definitely incorrect that this is unusual and that it’s not dissimilar to a paid model being coerced mid-session by a predator with an agenda into allowing violating images to be taken of them.
It’s exactly the same dynamic. Predator has an agenda, bait and switch surprises and confuses their victim into complying. It’s a pretty common tactic.
When there is a huge disparity in incomes the only way rent should be split 50/50 is if the lower earner lives within their budget. So a very small one bedroom rental in a lower income area would be the only fair way to do it. It looks like he’s taking advantage of your naïveté and you really should just stick to the idea that you decide how to live within your budget. What are your boundaries? What are your decisions? Tell him that and he’ll have to decide from there. Don’t let him convince you otherwise. It’s your life that you have to deal with the consequences of.
It wouldn’t, typo.
Leave her alone, like no contact. You don’t believe her and are victim blaming. The best thing for her is for you to get out of her life.
Not at all. He doesn't seem to be hiding anything. I fact that fact he's so open and such is probably a big indicator he's not cheating on you with her. Is he probably in love? Sure but not in a “hey let's hook up” kinda way there are different types of love and from what I've seen written here it seems like non-blood sibling love. Like brother and sister.
She underestimated her calf fetish
My opinion just move on , don’t bother yourself with telling a lying person , and it’s very obvious this person he lies for what benefits him , so if you decide to stay he will keep lying to you for many things … just move on with your life because you deserve better.
When it happened to me in my mid 20’s, it was also a “friend” not a professional situation like a paid modeling job.
You’re definitely incorrect that this is unusual and that it’s not dissimilar to a paid model being coerced mid-session by a predator with an agenda into allowing violating images to be taken of them.
It’s exactly the same dynamic. Predator has an agenda, bait and switch surprises and confuses their victim into complying. It’s a pretty common tactic.
When there is a huge disparity in incomes the only way rent should be split 50/50 is if the lower earner lives within their budget. So a very small one bedroom rental in a lower income area would be the only fair way to do it. It looks like he’s taking advantage of your naïveté and you really should just stick to the idea that you decide how to live within your budget. What are your boundaries? What are your decisions? Tell him that and he’ll have to decide from there. Don’t let him convince you otherwise. It’s your life that you have to deal with the consequences of.
Agreed!
How could it go wrong. She’s cheating. What’s she gunna say it was a leprechaun she was visiting