Girl, you clearly already don’t trust him, and he’s not making any moves to change that. Wishful thinking isn’t going to get him to act right, and hoping you’ll be enough to make him change never works out. Take it from someone who has been where you are — if you throw yourself back into this, you’re just going to get hurt again.
No need immediately but as soon as it looks like any kind of romantic relationship that could last more than a couple of weeks. The longer you wait the more likelihood he'll be angry that you didn't do it sooner.
Be careful about co-worker relationships and especially here since once you tell him there's a possibility of him sharing it if he gets angry with you for any reason.
As someone else pointed out here, aesthetics is a major factor for attraction, especially in this subculture scene. I suggest you to move on, not everyone will click with you, that's life.
There’s a lot I can say about a man that wants to plan a destination get-away while his pregnant wife is back at home. A cheater isn’t automatically one of them.
There are lots of explanations for your mom’s reaction so don’t jump to any conclusions. It sounds like she’s clearly uncomfortable with your DNA test findings. Could there have been an affair? Yes. Could there have been a sexual assault? Yes. Could one of her parents have been passing as a race that may have made their lives easier in that time and place? Yes. There’s no way to know for sure what exactly happened but if your mom has been traumatized, tread lightly. I’m sure the last thing you want to do is traumatize her any more than she already has been. She has her reasons and whatever those reasons are, they should be respected. How would you feel if you found out that your mom was sexually assaulted and had no choices. Would you really want your father to know about that against her will? It would completely re-traumatize your mom who wanted to lock that piece of her in a dark room never to be brought to daylight. Your parents are still and always will be your parents and they obviously love you. If I were you I’d give it some time and talk with my mom privately. I hope you find your answers. Keep an open mind and cut your mom some slack.
This. Its so damaging when the friends don't make an effort with the partners.
Bull. If you have to lie about why you fucked a teen it makes it worse…ew. I feel for her and I hope your fiance knows what's good for her and leaves.
Girl, you clearly already don’t trust him, and he’s not making any moves to change that. Wishful thinking isn’t going to get him to act right, and hoping you’ll be enough to make him change never works out. Take it from someone who has been where you are — if you throw yourself back into this, you’re just going to get hurt again.
It's okay for her to be bi but that in itself does not give her the freedom to explore it.
No need immediately but as soon as it looks like any kind of romantic relationship that could last more than a couple of weeks. The longer you wait the more likelihood he'll be angry that you didn't do it sooner.
Be careful about co-worker relationships and especially here since once you tell him there's a possibility of him sharing it if he gets angry with you for any reason.
As someone else pointed out here, aesthetics is a major factor for attraction, especially in this subculture scene. I suggest you to move on, not everyone will click with you, that's life.
He's not a project car. You either accept him for who he is, or move on. What is sleep hygiene??
There’s a lot I can say about a man that wants to plan a destination get-away while his pregnant wife is back at home. A cheater isn’t automatically one of them.
There are lots of explanations for your mom’s reaction so don’t jump to any conclusions. It sounds like she’s clearly uncomfortable with your DNA test findings. Could there have been an affair? Yes. Could there have been a sexual assault? Yes. Could one of her parents have been passing as a race that may have made their lives easier in that time and place? Yes. There’s no way to know for sure what exactly happened but if your mom has been traumatized, tread lightly. I’m sure the last thing you want to do is traumatize her any more than she already has been. She has her reasons and whatever those reasons are, they should be respected. How would you feel if you found out that your mom was sexually assaulted and had no choices. Would you really want your father to know about that against her will? It would completely re-traumatize your mom who wanted to lock that piece of her in a dark room never to be brought to daylight. Your parents are still and always will be your parents and they obviously love you. If I were you I’d give it some time and talk with my mom privately. I hope you find your answers. Keep an open mind and cut your mom some slack.
Take the job