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Date: November 22, 2022
Please leave this man. I don't understand how you can say you love this man. He is despicable. He told you the truth about himself. There is nothing about him that deserves love nor respect. You say you might be pregnant, I pray for your sake that you are not. If you are – with a heavy heart I would say that termination if possible is the best option. I don't even want to contemplate the damage this guy can cause to the child and you. I certainly cannot see a scenario where you could co-parent with someone like that. Basically for the sake of your mental and physical health and your future – RUN! And make sure he doesn't find out about it until you are as far away from him as possible.
Straight up DARVO tactics.
Deny – he didn't do anything wrong he didn't know until they were leaving. (Right sure Jan)
Attack – OP is the issue and he says they're over reacting and it's not a big deal.
Reverse victim Offender – he's the clearly the victim of his big ole mean boss who lied and his gf who doesn't trust him.
Girl you're not over reacting he's clearly cheating and is too stupid to even come up with a believable lie. And even if he wasn't cheating this is so many levels or boundary crossing and lack of respect for you.
I feel like it’s important to ask two questions:
1.) What do you like about her? It’s hot to gauge if there’s anything redeemable here because you don’t say anything positive about her – you didn’t say anything you like about her so I find it even harder to believe that you love her. You didn’t even marry her for love, you married her due to circumstances. If you don’t like her as a person or love her in some capacity, I’m not sure what you’d be holding on to.
2.) If you are from different countries, is there maybe a cultural gender role consideration you’re missing here? There are lots of cultures that are still quite traditional. Could it just be you’re one tough conversation away from pushing through this? “Hey, let’s have a serious conversation about how we’re going to build this life together, okay?” You guys could literally make lists of what you expect of the husband and wife in a marriage and you might get some insight.
And I’ll just say, as a very shy writer, I don’t like anyone reading my work even in my vicinity. Plus she’s not hiding her activity, you know she’s writing – she’s keeping the contents of that writing to herself. Have you ever asked her just what she writes about? Taking an interest in someone else’s hobby doesn’t mean you get to read every word or participate- you simply know it exists and ask her how it’s going.
Don’t beg her to contribute to the household and then get mad that she’s being frugal. She can’t win there. In fact, this is where you really contradict yourself to me. She’s doing what she can in the way that works for her. While it might not be much to you, and yes, you’d prefer her to work, it’s not the reality of the situation. She could work, but right now she’s now, so today what she’s doing to address the problem is ensuring you save as much money as possible.
But if you don’t in some way love this woman, I’m not sure what you’re holding onto. And if you’re feeling suicidal, you should see a doctor/therapist. Your mental health should be a priority and a therapist can also help you find the right next step.
Dude exactly. And OP, if you were to go back to him, you're subconsciously letting him know that this shit is okay to let slide. You'd be rewarding this behavior if you took him back. Don't fucking do it man.
I don't and I'm thinking about bringing it up again because nothing has changed since the two times we have talked about it but I just wanted other people's opinion on this before I bring anything up
Well how far along are you? I would just get an abortion no way on gods green earth would I give that man a baby. IDC how many drugs you took and how much it altered your state I don’t care if you had a psychotic episode. Just nope. I wouldn’t wanna deal with any of that shit, abortion ASAP, divorce and disown.
Like I said.
There is no one else besides you navigating your journey in life.
People come and people go.
Those who choose to stand by your side are the ones of value.
The only person who holds the power to break you, is you.
You will find your way.
You'll have new oppurnities and new experiences.
This break up does not define you… it elevates you. Allow it to make you stronger.
You got this.
Eyes forward.
Determination.