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Date: October 4, 2022
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There is a difference between enabling an addict and visiting family. Help your sister through professional means instead of being a plan b when she is on bad behavior. You and your spouse need counseling on how to deal with conflict. Threatening divorce does tremendous damage and causes trust issues. Having three huge fights about the same thing without arriving at some compromise is a sign of big problems, too.
If money isn’t an issue in this situation then I don’t see any reason for her not to pursue what makes her happy.
If money is an issue maybe bring up to her that a job is necessary in this situation to make ends meet.
It really would crush someone if their SO sees them actually putting the time into something that could be their dream and fun and say that what you’re doing isn’t working out.
I really don’t understand the downvotes. I’m happily married and buy nice gifts for friends of both sexes.
You and the bunnies are a package deal. I wouldn't give my pets up for anyone.
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If he had been drinking, it wasn’t really consensual. That said, he clearly has an issue with drinking, and working at a pub doesn’t exactly bode well for the both of you for establishing trust.
People make mistakes, but it’s whether the mistakes crosses major enough boundaries, and what mitigating actions they take afterwards to prevent such a mistake from happening again.
(1) he has not changed anything to prevent a mistake like that from happening again.
(2) you could work on rebuilding trust, but it’s always there… a little voice of doubt. It takes some major contrition and penance to ever truly forgive cheating. The emotional intimacy with a stranger is actually the bigger of the red flags, because that is inviting a stranger into your intimate circle. Sex alone is probably more easily forgiven.
(3) did you ever consider that you can have a happy relationship with someone else? Falling in love is statistically easy. Staying in love long term takes work, a lot of work, even without self sabotaging behavior. Every effort that you are putting into forgiveness robs you of the effort to put into any other number of things or endeavours.
At some point, in order to achieve peace, you will have to forgive him. It’s just a lot easier to forgive him and be apart from him, then to forgive and stay together.
If you can access a therapist, try it for a while. See if they can help you arrive at a place where you can make peace with all of this. It’s a lot to have to carry for someone else’s Fuq up.
The hilarity of this comment appropriately addresses how satirical this post seems. 😮
I once saw something that I now 100% believe to be true: the more someone posts live! about their relationship, the worse of a state it's in.
Watched it play out many times now, most recent one is a friend of a friend who 6 months ago married a man who won't even have sex with her anymore. Her insta is currently flooded with pics of them, she has never been less happy IRL.
I'd take it as a good sign that she kept her relationship offline, she probably is quite emotionally healthy if she's not seeking that kind of validation.
“You learn a lot about people when they don't get what they want from you.”
Dude, you’re a grown ass man who can’t leave this toxic situation because of $ issues. Time to put on your big boy pants on. Yes, she’s a naked mess, but you allow this. You have no leverage.
You are completely against the idea of shower sex? That’s what he’s asking for. If you don’t want to then don’t. I love you but I just don’t feel sexy in the shower and it would be uncomfortable for me. That’s it.
I’m judging myself too. Idk I’d she’s the person she was when we met or if these traits reading their head are the real her. I’ve given her a break because she just found out in 2019, I would be more sympathetic if she permanently cut her dad off but that’s not the case, she’s accepting gifts from him. He made Facebook posts on her bday in 2021 and 2022 calling her his princess and favorite daughter and she liked the posts. I can’t tell if liking them is harmless since she wasn’t abused by him and she’s just confused since she’s a self professed “daddy’s girl” and she’s grieving f what he did or if it’s because she just doesn’t care what he did and his unwaveringly supportive of him
“What did it mean when you responded that way?”
That's how you handle this. Not by asking the internet.
Ultimately if she can't forgive you she's not going to be happy in the relationship.
You're both financially secure, so rather than staying unhappy together, make a fresh start and seek happiness individually.