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Denisa, 22 y.o.
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Date: November 22, 2022
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Yeah our 1 year old is now sleeping through the night. We will have random wake-ups from the 3-year-old, the baby, or the dog. Seems that most nights something will break our sleep at least once, but just very quickly and we all go back to bed. But whenever that happens we all kind of wake up, so it's not something she solely has to deal with. I will say that she was amazing dealing with all of the nighttime wake-ups the last year, which is wy I am only starting to get resentful now. I just assumed as the baby got older she would become more grateful. That has not been the case.
Why can't you just use your hand? You're really going to break her heart, she is more than likely saying yes because she feels inadequate and that she has no other choice to keep you, but honestly this isn't fair at all on her. It's not her fault she's got health issues, and it's so one sided I don't see it working out.
Despite what others are saying here, you don't have any right to be told what happened, especially if it was a traumatic event for her. Without her telling you everything you already know that:
-obviously SOMETHING happened -that particular something is bad enough that she never wants to be around him again(and yes, that's almost definitely including your possible future wedding) -that something is also bad enough that she doesn't even want to tell you while he's alive -that your father is a liar since it's clear that something happened, even if you don't know what it was, and he's saying nothing happened at all.
Do you trust your girlfriend? Can you respect her enough to support her stated boundary without having the detailed reason for it? Honestly with her reaction and refusal to discuss it, and especially that she's only tell you when he's dead, the only that really fits to me is some type of sexual advance/assault. If that's the case she may NEVER be able to talk about it, and if she can it may take a very long time to. She would still be emotionally reeling and trying to process it right now, and shouldn't be pressured to satisfy your own curiosity. As much as it might be helpful for you in supporting her to know, and not knowing is frustrating, you are not entitled to add further trauma by making her talk about something upsetting that happened to her and didn't directly involve you.
You know what you need to know- that something VERY bad happened, bad enough to really upset her and make her cut off contact with him. And you know he's lying about it. I'd honestly demand he fess up, not her, and cut contact if he refuses.
Could he have offered her money to leave you? It doesn't seem like he tried to put a move on her.