My hubs and I both wanted a house. We both worked to buy the house. He made more than me for years. 2 people, working towards a shared goal. OP does not want a house, that’s fine. He wants to be with someone who wants a house. She would like OP to pitch in to buy a house for both of them. See, he’d live there too so he would also benefit. She would like OP to work THE SAME AMOUNT of hours she does so they can both buy a home to share. OP just wants gf to give up her dream, he’s not willing to give up anything. Ergo, they are not compatible. OP is selfish because he wants exactly what he already has and he’s expecting gf to sacrifice her dream. OP will be sacrificing nothing. The only way he gets to not be selfish is to break up with his gf.
Not unless the AI suddenly grew a conscious and suddenly figured out how to download itself into an AI robot to find you IRL like some sci-fi horror film.
It’s not cheating IMO because there is only one human involved, not two.
“everything was awesome, but it was perfect. And now im upset”
are you my girlfriend lol
My hubs and I both wanted a house. We both worked to buy the house. He made more than me for years. 2 people, working towards a shared goal. OP does not want a house, that’s fine. He wants to be with someone who wants a house. She would like OP to pitch in to buy a house for both of them. See, he’d live there too so he would also benefit. She would like OP to work THE SAME AMOUNT of hours she does so they can both buy a home to share. OP just wants gf to give up her dream, he’s not willing to give up anything. Ergo, they are not compatible. OP is selfish because he wants exactly what he already has and he’s expecting gf to sacrifice her dream. OP will be sacrificing nothing. The only way he gets to not be selfish is to break up with his gf.
My partner is 13 years younger. You really can't control what other people think. Just laugh it off. That's all you can do
Not unless the AI suddenly grew a conscious and suddenly figured out how to download itself into an AI robot to find you IRL like some sci-fi horror film.
It’s not cheating IMO because there is only one human involved, not two.