Yes, sincerely apologize to her, if that’s possible for you. And then break it off with her in the kindest possible way, because even being alone is better for her than being with you.
The LITERAL definition of sexual assault is unwanted forcible touching in a sexual manner- i.e. touching someone where their bathing suit covers, without their consent. For men it's anus, testicles, and penises. For women it's vaginas, breasts, and anuses. It is not limited to but can include digital (finger) penetration, oral sex, and penetrative sex using another body part or an object. It includes caressing, prodding, and fondling/groping. Sexual harassment is unwanted sexual attention.
There’s nothing inherently negative about telling him that she wants the same type of trip he wants. The only thing making it seem “shitty” is the assumption that he will not respond favorably to this, based on her reports of how he has responded thus far. She said she would be fine with him going on a golf trip, she just doesn’t want him going to clubs and casinos and acting like he’s still single when he has, presumably, committed his life to being with her. If they can’t agree on something as basic as that, they shouldn’t be getting married.
Double commenting to tell me I’m mad displays a hilarious lack of self awareness
Yes, sincerely apologize to her, if that’s possible for you. And then break it off with her in the kindest possible way, because even being alone is better for her than being with you.
The LITERAL definition of sexual assault is unwanted forcible touching in a sexual manner- i.e. touching someone where their bathing suit covers, without their consent. For men it's anus, testicles, and penises. For women it's vaginas, breasts, and anuses. It is not limited to but can include digital (finger) penetration, oral sex, and penetrative sex using another body part or an object. It includes caressing, prodding, and fondling/groping. Sexual harassment is unwanted sexual attention.
None of her touching was sexual.
There’s nothing inherently negative about telling him that she wants the same type of trip he wants. The only thing making it seem “shitty” is the assumption that he will not respond favorably to this, based on her reports of how he has responded thus far. She said she would be fine with him going on a golf trip, she just doesn’t want him going to clubs and casinos and acting like he’s still single when he has, presumably, committed his life to being with her. If they can’t agree on something as basic as that, they shouldn’t be getting married.
He raped you and you want to fix him? I don't think so. Run
Thank you for the push