I agree that he shouldn’t make a comment like that about your natural smell. But was he saying that you smell bad right now, as opposed to all the time? If he says it’s all the time, the yeah, screw him. If it’s just right now, then you should probably listen, or at least just say thanks for letting me know.
I’ve always told women that their scent smells off if it does. Could be a medical issue. You shouldn’t discourage him from giving you a heads up about it, because trust me, guys would rather not say anything then go through that awkwardness.
Also, he does sound gross himself. Tell him his breath stinks.
It took me 10 years to even begin to think about repairing the relationship with my dad after his recovery from alcohol abuse. Sometimes it takes a looooong time. Good luck bud.
Personally, even though the age difference is only 10 years, this man is grooming you. I don’t believe on your own that you want to have other partners I think you want to fall in love and be with the person you love. And I think some of your distress is because he is pushing you so that he can cheat when he’s gone and make it legal so you have to deal with it. You need to get out of this relationship. Your suicidal thoughts though probably have origins in other things previously are due to stress of living in a way you don’t really want to live. And I’m not sure if you’re even aware of it.
OP ignore the blind trust comments it is reasonable to be uncomfortable with your gf being paid for by guys you don’t know to travel abroad with them! The controlling comments make no sense as the ultimate frees her to do what in all probability she was going to do anyway without OP being potentially hurt or betrayed. Win win being mad he doesn’t want to be surprised or violated is strange!
Ok. She screwed up and made a bad decision. She cares enough about you that she pledges to not do it again, despite how much she liked it. That needs to count for something. Forgive her this once. But be very clear if it happens again it will be over for good.
Look guys, if you're gonna pull the massage trick then you have to make it enjoyable for her at the very least. Just whipping out his cock and putting it on her back? What did he expect
And now you see why a 34-year-old man was with a 20-year-old – he couldn't get anyone his age who would tolerate him. Maybe if he spent more time at home and helped you with the kids, you might want to exercise more. Even if you didn't. He knew this about you going in and expected you to be skinny forever. You know it's only going to worse as you get older, right? I would put my foot down and get into couples therapy if you feel like the relationship is worth saving. Personally, I think his behavior is not acceptable at all. Your comments in your edits only make the point more clear. You deserve to be treated better.
I agree that he shouldn’t make a comment like that about your natural smell. But was he saying that you smell bad right now, as opposed to all the time? If he says it’s all the time, the yeah, screw him. If it’s just right now, then you should probably listen, or at least just say thanks for letting me know.
I’ve always told women that their scent smells off if it does. Could be a medical issue. You shouldn’t discourage him from giving you a heads up about it, because trust me, guys would rather not say anything then go through that awkwardness.
Also, he does sound gross himself. Tell him his breath stinks.
It took me 10 years to even begin to think about repairing the relationship with my dad after his recovery from alcohol abuse. Sometimes it takes a looooong time. Good luck bud.
Personally, even though the age difference is only 10 years, this man is grooming you. I don’t believe on your own that you want to have other partners I think you want to fall in love and be with the person you love. And I think some of your distress is because he is pushing you so that he can cheat when he’s gone and make it legal so you have to deal with it. You need to get out of this relationship. Your suicidal thoughts though probably have origins in other things previously are due to stress of living in a way you don’t really want to live. And I’m not sure if you’re even aware of it.
OP ignore the blind trust comments it is reasonable to be uncomfortable with your gf being paid for by guys you don’t know to travel abroad with them! The controlling comments make no sense as the ultimate frees her to do what in all probability she was going to do anyway without OP being potentially hurt or betrayed. Win win being mad he doesn’t want to be surprised or violated is strange!
Ok. She screwed up and made a bad decision. She cares enough about you that she pledges to not do it again, despite how much she liked it. That needs to count for something. Forgive her this once. But be very clear if it happens again it will be over for good.
Look guys, if you're gonna pull the massage trick then you have to make it enjoyable for her at the very least. Just whipping out his cock and putting it on her back? What did he expect
And now you see why a 34-year-old man was with a 20-year-old – he couldn't get anyone his age who would tolerate him. Maybe if he spent more time at home and helped you with the kids, you might want to exercise more. Even if you didn't. He knew this about you going in and expected you to be skinny forever. You know it's only going to worse as you get older, right? I would put my foot down and get into couples therapy if you feel like the relationship is worth saving. Personally, I think his behavior is not acceptable at all. Your comments in your edits only make the point more clear. You deserve to be treated better.