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As the woman whos literally been on both sides…
Absolutely do it.
Honey, your boyfriend is gay and you are his beard.
In that case accept you will online like this the next 50-60 years.
I’ve even suggested it and she has shot it down. There’s 0 give.
What does he do with his time? I think I would love to have an inheritance to be free to travel, make art , visit friends, and donate to great causes. Or a job , or volunteering that is worthwhile.
So does he do , if not work?
It sounds like depression to me, especially if it is new behavior.
Clearly all you can do is set a boundary for yourself. He starts taking care of himself and sees his doctor, or you are gone.
So you are punishing him because you are 32? You are rushing into marriage and have only been dating for barely over a year.
You sound horrible to be in a relationship with. If marriage was what you wanted and desired, you should have waited until 31 to look for a husband. You should have made it a priority when you were younger and had more time to focus on it as you seem rushed.
Now you are rushing him to marry and any relationship that is forced on by an ultimatum is doomed to fail as you don't know If he really wanted to be married because he loves you or felt forced. If it is forced, he will build resentment and more likely to kill the marriage down the line.
please get a hobby, OP.
everything wrong in your life can be solved by exploring your own passions, your purpose, the things that inspire you, help you learn new things, help you take risks, help you build confidence in yourself.
figure out what moves you aside from your boyfriend. lovers do not suffice as a hobby.
your relationship with him will improve too, as you focus on your passions, because you will become more independent, more confident, more attractive.
when you are whole, you will no longer feel this kind of envy. you will be happy for his happiness, for his success. envy is really just you being mad that you're not where someone is. so work on getting there! work on yourself.
He's trying to establish an FWB dynamic. He doesn't want to date you.
I can't say he's inherently dickish for wanting said dynamic but if that's not what you want make it plain to him.
Im just scared…
I think it would help a great deal in any case to investigate local programs that organize help for adults living with autism. Guessing you're in Europe, and I don't know the infrastructure there, but a lot of Europe is really progressive in dealing with things like aging and dementia. Treat it like a research project.
I think it would benefit you, if you marry him, because this brother will definitely be part of your life. Not necessarily caring for him, but there will be family ties. It would be good to know where you can turn for support.
I’m dead ☠️ You’re lack of empathy and self centeredness is outrageous. Absolutely off the charts.
All the other people's advice on herebis spot on. Listen to it. You are the asshole here.
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a little over a week, do myy best to see her every other or atleast every two weeks and when i go to her house its for around a week.
She said it wasn’t his fault and that she was leaving him for someone new???
He was very physically and verbally and mentally abusive.
Um… get the fuck out of there. Period.
Don't have sex with people you don't want to co-parent with?
I feel absolutely horrible for OP and the hand she was dealt but I also can’t imagine leaving an innocent child with half my DNA with an abuser.
Looks like it can be done while pregnant as early as 7 weeks.
Document everything and screenshot everything for evidence and get a lawyer asap too.
You've made your boundary very clear, but he's been abiding by your boundaries the entire time. The reality is your boundaries should have been “no drugs, at all”.
You're not being unreasonable. If he's not addicted and doesn't do it often, then it shouldn't be a problem to leave it behind. If he's unable or unwilling to leave it behind, he needs to get left.
So why include that he is starting to think that he is lame in your post. Is that not him suffering?
And the fiancee who climaxed.
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Wife always right.. husband wrong.. always..
It is a blessing in disguise OP
She left you at the first bump and don’t go into the rabbit hole OP if you can’t stand what you will find (coworker)
No kids
No shared asset
No marriage
23 m,
Break free and better yourself OP (find a JOB)
He’s a doormat.
As a guy it makes me angry that the norm for you in relationships has been for guys to disrespect you over and over.
Don't put up with these drongos. The first time a guy won't accept no for an answer or tries to coerce you, should be your cue to kick him out.
You are entitled to choose what happens to your body and for your decision to be final and respected.
i mean, he's 21. Was he present during your struggle with anorexia? Have you educated him on what that all means, how it still impacts you, etc?
I cheated on you, but I didn't even like him.
I cheated on you, but it was unhealthy anyway.
I cheated on you, but he was my first.
I cheated on you, but it was only twice and only then I felt bad.
Yeah… No.
Because she’s got a husband and a fuck buddy?
OP, how long were your future husband/husband and best friend openly flirting in front of you that you went into this marriage afraid that he would cheat on you with her? So of course you were willing to consider the open marriage to keep him from cheating. But he would have cheated anyway. The signs were there, and by your best friend's actions prior to their relationship, I don't think she would have had any problems engaging in an affair behind your back. You need to find out why they think their actions were okay. You shouldn't start a marriage worrying that your husband will cheat, and especially not with your best friend.
You can’t fix him. Only he can fix him, and only if he truly wants to, and then seeks therapy and does the work. All the things you’re doing to try to prove yourself are just feeding his black hole of insecurities. None of those things you’re sharing with him are actually helping the situation, at all. It’s making it worse actually. The more you give in, the more he will demand because the problem isn’t inside you, it’s inside him. Nothing you can do/say/give will do anything to address the root issue, which is his insecurities. He’s the only person who can fix this, and he has to want to, first.
I'm convinced. There is a market for everything.
You’ve only been dating for 5 months and he’s like this??? ??? this is his “best” behavior – it will only get worse.
Yeah no OP – this “knowing” is just infatuation with him. That’s not enough to make a healthy, functional relationship.
You’ve said yourself you’re faithful and you sound like you’ve been a good gf. You’ve done nothing wrong, and he’s acting this way?? Instead of talking to you about how he feels, he has to have access to your phone, you have to text him back constantly, etc. You’ll be walking on eggshells your whole life! You’re not FREE to do anything.
Think about your future if you were to get married and have kids. And he hasn’t let up. He’s always accusing you of sleeping with other people, monitoring where you go, etc. What happens when he doesn’t believe your kids are his? Tells you that you “shouldn’t bother coming home” when you’re out a tad late? Doesn’t support you during pregnancy? Takes your phone and computer, so that you can’t cheat live? What if this controlling behavior extends to the kids and they’re not free to go out or do anything.
He’s controlling and it sounds quite exhausting and unhealthy. It will ruin your life and you’ll wish you had got out now!
Any “good” qualities you see in him can be found in another person, MINUS all of the creepy, controlling behavior. Imagine being able to go out with your coworkers, your friends, your family, and not having to worry about getting 10 texts about how you’re an unfaithful cheat. Not having to worry about getting locked out of your house. Not having to update someone every second. Because a normal, healthy partner will actually trust you to honor the relationship and be faithful ??♀️
Why a motel? Don’t either of you have a place? You aren’t happy. Why are you staying with him? It’s a new relationship and it’s not working. Move on.
I dunno. Do you LIKE dating a misogynist?
I’m just reading the rest of the comments now. There’s some excellent and practical advice here! I hope you’re ok. You deserve so much better; and you will find it.
Is it possible to be in a committed relationship while still being friendly terms with your ex.
Sure, but its also unlikely.