Your husband is a rapist. Everyone here sees it clear as daylight: your husband raped your sister. And it's likely this isn't the first time if she has a tendency to get black-out drunk. You are married to a rapist. How long have you been married, btw? That age gap is starting to look rather suspicious. Instead of being angry at your sister, get her the help she needs. And go to the police to report your piece of shit husband.
Shame on you encouraging people to get stds. I’m a woman myself I’m not saying I have the smallest body count so I’m not sex shaming you’re here encouraging people to get stds a lower there body value. You are a terrible person shame on you.
A paternity test may be in order – both for your son and the one you are expecting.
I get that people are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex, but this situation is extending way beyond that and you are actively being supplanted by her friend in your own life.
So if you want a way to tackle this head on, explain that you know that something deeper is going on between them to the extent that you are now questioning the paternity of your own children.
No parent encourages their child to refer to a “friend” by a term such as that without there being a reason behind it.
You are the only one here that knows him. If he tends to put you down or manipulate you by making you insecure you shouldn't stay with him. If he is usally caring you could try to just think about this from a mans perspective. Most boys, especially young ones, say things like this to each other all the time and it doesn't mean anything. Most boys tend to avoid topics that are especially sensitive but sometimes they fail. If you think he's playful and made a mistake he will probably learn that he crossed a line.
Dude – you are together 5 years – if you weren't happy you should have left – long ago. Part of what you say here just sounds (to me) like cold feet. You should think long and hot if there are alternatives that might work to make you feel more comfortable (like premarriage counseling). If you are really sure then start making arrangements.
Facts
So your husband raped your sister and you’re upset at her?
Again— YOUR HUSBAND RAPED YOUR SISTER
Your husband is a rapist. Everyone here sees it clear as daylight: your husband raped your sister. And it's likely this isn't the first time if she has a tendency to get black-out drunk. You are married to a rapist. How long have you been married, btw? That age gap is starting to look rather suspicious. Instead of being angry at your sister, get her the help she needs. And go to the police to report your piece of shit husband.
Shame on you encouraging people to get stds. I’m a woman myself I’m not saying I have the smallest body count so I’m not sex shaming you’re here encouraging people to get stds a lower there body value. You are a terrible person shame on you.
A paternity test may be in order – both for your son and the one you are expecting.
I get that people are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex, but this situation is extending way beyond that and you are actively being supplanted by her friend in your own life.
So if you want a way to tackle this head on, explain that you know that something deeper is going on between them to the extent that you are now questioning the paternity of your own children.
No parent encourages their child to refer to a “friend” by a term such as that without there being a reason behind it.
Thank you ❤️ Iam actually already seeing a therapist. Also thanks for your answer 🙂
You are the only one here that knows him. If he tends to put you down or manipulate you by making you insecure you shouldn't stay with him. If he is usally caring you could try to just think about this from a mans perspective. Most boys, especially young ones, say things like this to each other all the time and it doesn't mean anything. Most boys tend to avoid topics that are especially sensitive but sometimes they fail. If you think he's playful and made a mistake he will probably learn that he crossed a line.
Dude – you are together 5 years – if you weren't happy you should have left – long ago. Part of what you say here just sounds (to me) like cold feet. You should think long and hot if there are alternatives that might work to make you feel more comfortable (like premarriage counseling). If you are really sure then start making arrangements.
This sounds terrible. If you don't wanna divorce directly you should schedule couple's counseling asap.