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Just block him?
Yea I dunno why you're getting down voted. Reddit is not a fan of/doesn't believe in casual sex that doesn't lead to drama. It's like they don't understand how it's possible. It can be a deal breaker for some, but that's not universal truth. For many people, it doesn't matter. I don't give a fuck who my partner has slept with or how many before me. Having alot of previous partners doesn't devalue a person. Also it's really none of my business.
It honestly sound like you may need to give an ultimatum to resolve these problems in your relationship. If he isn't willing to try therapy then maybe it's time that you do it solo along with just being solo until you find a more compatible mate
May I ask why you think that ?
Just letting you know you didn't reply to OP so she may not see your nice comment.
Blaming men for the problems they face isn’t victim blaming
Do you think before you type? You are literally saying men created their own issues, that's the definition of “le patriarchy”, these are olympic grade mental gymnastics
Toxic patriarchy is the one telling men how they should and shouldn’t act in a situation like this and telling them to man up. Toxic patriarchy is telling a guy he’s not allowed to be a victim.
In the real world outside of gender studies class, women are the ones reinforcing that 80% of the time
Honestly, you're doing yourself a disservice by being with a man who thinks his penis is a gift to you.
Do you not use air conditioning or heating or lights? Do you not use more toilet paper? Do you not use more house supplies? Do not really think of the offices yours if you both need to share it and you have a phone call to make you would expect priority? The point is your nickel and diming
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I just don’t understand why he thinks he can dictate the direction of everything: from how you two will continually this relationship to who gets the bed.
You are not an a la carte menu. He doesn’t get to pick the parts he likes.
She’s actually told me she thinks I have NPD a lot & I have related to some things she’s shown me. She has BPD herself but honestly it doesn’t show until she’s really really upset about something, which is something I like about her. She has great relationships with her million friends and family but this is also without therapy or meds which kinda gives me hope for me. She researched and made keynotes on her BPD and I feel I can do some of the same if I did happen to have NPD. She does deserve better though, I just want me to be better for her. I know if we’re apart too long she won’t take me back at all because she won’t trust what I’ve done. I haven’t done anything this time.
But thanks man for views, I’ll sit on this all
I'm already taking individual therapy and so is she
Gtfo man. If he excuse was because she was “lonely” while you were dealing with a family situation, whatever comes your way in life, she's gonna be on her back for someone else instead of having your back. Dump the trash.
Girl what? He’s a grown ass adult, what is his dad going to do about it? Ground him???
Talk to him about this yourself, like the grown ups you both are.
Because a lot of women: 1. Have low self-esteem 2. Settle 3. Are conditioned to “build him into a man” 4. Fear being along 5. All of the above
Unfortunately guys will just go along forever without really thinking about this stuff, or thinking “well if she wanted something she would ask for it”
Im guilty as charged. Dated my ex wife for 5 years and didn't think about “the future” until she let me know she was unhappy with the pace of things
That led to some soul searching which led me to realize I didn't want to lose her (yet, lol)
We got engaged and married and had 2 kids and even though we are divorced now I wouldn't change a thing
Of course it could go either way. But you have to be true to what you want in life, and if marriage is important to you, be honest with him
I'm of the general opinion that expecting your partner to prioritize your needs over theirs 100% of the time in a relationship is unreasonable and unhealthy. Would she rather you be falling behind in school in order to have her feel important? If she can't see how she's also being selfish then you two may just not be compatible.