She is a good friend if she has created the distance and boundary herself. Obviously she is ashamed for her feelings. And respects you and him enough not to ever compromise anything. I'd say give her the space, but don't neglect her. Keep tabs on her, but don't pester her like normal best friends do. Let her eventually get back to you.
I had to take mine out as well barely a year after I had it put in, and I’m still dealing with the fall out
She is a good friend if she has created the distance and boundary herself. Obviously she is ashamed for her feelings. And respects you and him enough not to ever compromise anything. I'd say give her the space, but don't neglect her. Keep tabs on her, but don't pester her like normal best friends do. Let her eventually get back to you.