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Date: November 20, 2022
Lol I’m surprised how many negative comments I received. I never said I’m incredible person but I’m certainly not a horrible one. if you think what i think is somehow horrible you haven’t seen real life… there’s many awful things unfortunately in the world we on-line. So take off pink shades. There’s nothing bad in desire to live! your best life. I’m not sure what is best for me thats all i was trying to ask if anyone felt the same way i do. I know a lot of women who make more money than their partner or have better carries and struggling with same feelings even though they love their partners. Maybe world has changed a lot and we haven’t… thinking of man as strong species .
She was lying. This was in her favor, giving you false hopes until reaching a point of no return
Anything regarding a proposal is years away and we are both aware of that. And sorry haha I’ll say it’s expensive for me as a student not super expensive that it’s worth resizing, plus I ordered it directly from Italy so it just adds complications.
Wow I‘m literally in the same exact situation as you rn and I‘m also 19, living with my boyfriends and his family and just today his mom came to me saying I‘m taking advantage of him. You want to rant to each other? I can send you a dm
If this is how you feel about her then break up. You don't date someone to mold them into what you want.
Your “working on yourself” seems to have missed a really important piece. It is your responsibility to behave decently, kindly, and respectfully to your partner. It is not her responsibility to make you feel like she deserves that. If you cannot treat her right, then you should not be dating her, period.
Right now, you want to have your cake and eat it too. You want the benefits of being in a relationship with her (whatever good feelings you get when things are going well), but you also want an excuse to treat her poorly.
The path to a healthy relationship is both of you working on yourselves, not trying to force each other to change.
Think with your head not your emotions
Of course he likes it. Don't be insecure.
Be his loyal lady, and agree with them.
Don't make it a thing. Otherwise it gets weird.
Every cheater has excuses. You are definitely the type. Those who are not the cheating type never cheat. Simple
Not unheard of, people out here will move on while they’re still in a relationship. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you, it could be that he wanted to let you down easy because he doesn’t add to your depression. That’s why he opted to say he didn’t like you instead of telling you about the other girl.
You really don’t understand, it has nothing to do with TikTok. That’s it.
Do what I did and is now doing with my recent ex. Zone em out as if they don't exist which for me might be harder than it was regarding my previous exes (at least the ones that I ended on no so great terms with) as our families as well as the AP's and AP's former fiance's families are close. I feel your pain bro.
I honestly wouldn’t trust the situation not because of the SO but because of the person they’re meeting.
What’s the reason to meet an ex alone that has a SO ?
Unless they were still friends after the break up, I wouldn’t be ok with it, especially if I’ve never met them.
Even a friendship with someone they were once sexually active with would make me uncomfortable and wouldn’t be ok with them being alone together.
Thank you for your reply, her mother didn't actually know what she was lying about. She was under the impression she was covering for a surprise my wife was planning for me. My mother in law actually had concerns that my wife was texting and calling people. From what I can tell from the texts nothing physical happened but the flirtyness of the texts, the lying, the making me feel bad for being suspicious counts as cheating to me
She buys and wraps her own presents. Thats all you need to know.
Why don’t you invite your bf to come along? Ask the friend and see how he reacts
Because it isn't a bad thing. The fact that OP's mom's husband calls her an alpha female AND also doesn't want her in his house is the red flag.
I am not sure of that. There is nothing in her post that lends any indication of sexual interest; and it does not make sense to me that he would have consented if sober but not drunk (especially that he pushed her off when more wits came about). Also, just because a man goes to a womans house does not mean it's all about sex all the time, just like women are able to go over to a man's house without sex on the brain. In the story, it looks more like he went there to drink more. With that said, he's still a piece of shit for going over a womans house alone to drink when this was a clear line in the relationship not to cross. He refuses to own his betrayal of trust too.
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Contempt is one of the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse for relationships. You clearly hold contempt for the way she expresses her emotions – you call it embarrassing for example. She’s now stonewalling you and tbh you deserve it. Stonewalling is another horseman. I won’t be surprised if you two don’t last long unless you fix this.
Calling her manipulative is fucked up on so many levels. Here’s why:
When you accused her of being manipulative – you attacked her character, you essentially told her she is a manipulative person, and this is a characteristic of who she is. You let her know you think this is a trait of hers – even when there is a large chance it is not. Of course she is disappointed that the person who is supposed to think the world of her, believes she is that kind of person.
If I know I’m not manipulative, and I know the person who is supposed to be my person thinks such a terrible thing about me, I know I wouldn’t be with that person long.
The best thing you can do here is to tell her you were wrong and that you lashed out and treat her like a queen. Actually change.
The healthiest thing is to block him in every social media and go no contact.
Holy crap. Call it quits and go to therapy to figure out why on earth you are allowing this relationship to continue.
Step mom here of a teenager. I would absolutely bawl my eyes out (in a good way) over receiving a scrapbook of family time and memories! LOVE the idea! I think that paired with a really lovely handwritten letter on the first page of the book or the last page would be an amazing gift. I would keep something like that until the day I die!
Try growing a spine.
It’s up to him to tell his family. You don’t need to see them again, in fact.
You should contact an attorney. Figure out what your rights and obligations are.
That’s still disrespectful no matter what.
TIL! That seems like a very reasoned way of doing things. Thank you for explaining to me!
It’s refreshing when the decision OP takes isn’t the clear asshole choice
No. The only thing you'd do wrong is have any kind of relationship with her again. She's a cheater and a liar.
I didn't always understand your train of thought but first of all, women are people too and that kinda feels like a new thought for you. I don't know if consuming more media (books, podcasts, etc) created by women would help but it's worth a shot, and might also give you something to talk about (not because it's “girly stuff”, just because it's something that interests you). Sure, societal gender norms often shape our personalities to some extent, but you really need to find a way to see women as people rather than some alien being or sexual object. I'm a woman and never felt that way about guys so hopefully someone else can chime in there.
I'm also kinda awkward/bad at reading people, but I'm 10 years older than you so I've picked up some tricks. One great indicator of if someone actually enjoys talking to you is how often you each initiate or escalate the conversation (if they initiate often, but it's just “how are you? Fine, you? Good,” let's say that's a level 1 interaction. You might try taking a turn initiating that and/or escalating to level 2 (ie “how was your weekend? Good, yours? Great! I went to this show of a band my friend likes and now I can't stop listening to their stuff”). Now you've shared something that isn't a deep dark secret but is a little personal. They might ask a followup (a hint they're interested in talking more). If they just say “oh, nice!” And move on, that might be an indication they're not looking to make another friend right now. I wouldn't make a strict rule about only initiating on an alternating basis or stop talking to someone based on 1 moment – they might be busy, tired, in a bad mood, have a headache, etc, – but you should pay attention to patterns. If they always give very short answers and don't ask questions, you should back off a bit. If they're chatty and seek you out, they're interested in talking to you. That's not necessarily, as you discovered, a romantic interest.
You can also just ask. “Hey, I couldn't tell if you were joking around earlier or if I offended you. Are we okay?” If she was offended, apologize, mean it, and change the behaviour.
Finally, empathy can be learned/practiced. I think there was a study that showed people who read at least 2 novels/yr have higher empathy than non-readers, but just taking time to flex those muscles and imagine what other people might be feeling will eventually become a habit that makes it easier to interact with people.
Good luck!
It seems that the real issue is whether or not to have children. You say that you love him but he doesn't want children. My own experience is similar in that my second wife and I have a 14 year age difference. Neither of us wanted children so that stumbling block was avoided. We've been together for 41 years and I am the happiest and most fortunate man I know. Each morning I wake up an hour or so before her, make coffee and wait for her. The pleasure at seeing her smiling face is indescribable and sets the mood for the day. From my point of view the absence of children has been a blessing. No one that I know has had the idyllic child raising experience that you dream of. For them it's been one burden after another. You know what's on the list, so no need to remind you. Perhaps this will seem silly to you, but we both love dogs and we have rescued several. I lost count, but I have several urns and pictures of them, remember all of them, and miss them after they have passed. Dogs have the intelligence of a 2 year old human. They always love you, always obey, never talk back, don't do anything but make us happier. The point that I'm trying to make is that having children is a major undertaking, not as rewarding as we imagine it to be, and sometimes ends badly despite all of our efforts to make a happy and healthy home for them. Perhaps you could think about having children a bit more and address in your analysis the 22 years or so of obligation to a task that will challenge every part of your being. Most women say that they cherish their children. I believe them and am deeply grateful for their selfless devotion to their children. Very rarely do the time and energy demands get discussed. After birth there will be days and weeks and months of sleepless nights, deep depression caused by hormonal imbalance, unwanted weight gain, unexplained conflict with your SO, the self loathing for not being able to produce enough breast milk that many women experience. All of these things I have witnessed because my Mother had 7 children. The family went through all of these experiences together. Sorry for the long and boring description. It's really only chapter one of the story about the reality vs. fantasy of having children. Do what you think is best for you. These are just some of my thoughts offered for your consideration. Be happy. Best wishes.
Has he ever cheated? Or hit you?
No, they don't make blockbusters. That's not the point. Yes, they are conservative and don't have a problem with plotlines where in-laws get married. That's the point. They are popular among their viewers. Their viewers eat these movies up and with cancel culture the way it is, that should tell you that people are not going to care about OP's dad dating their MIL.
Tell her that you meant the cute romantic things that you do for each other, and it was her mind that went straight to sex.
And while you don’t want to hear it, her behaviour could be a red flag ?, she may have been cheating on you while she was apart from you, or may be looking at leaving you, and looking for any reason to make it your fault.
I mean, if she knows you’re gay you’d be way better off waiting for her move.
This must be a cultural thing. In the US, washing a guest’s laundry would be pretty unusual, and offensive to some. Her expectations are not aligned with your culture. Are her expectations normal in the country where you are living?
Don’t let her separate you from parents you love.
I’d be reassured that he wants her to meet you you. Maybe he just really likes her as a friend and wants her in your (pl) life. Together. As a friend. That seems a bit more plausible. If it was me I’d be trying to be friends with her. Because she’s obviously important enough to your husband to give up an evening for and cook for.
But also my husband would kick me out the kitchen. He’d not kick a guest out the kitchen. Guest manners and spouse manners.
If I felt like someone had betrayed me, I wouldn’t e able to be normal around them and have fun.
If you also feel this way, the trip is really already ruined.