Dude you need to prove intent for it to be sexual blackmail. OP taking pictures because she was panicked and couldn’t fully comprehend what she was seeing doesn’t mean she had intent to expose him. Chill tf out. Besides, she said they’re deleted now.
Sorry I’m not contributing much about your dilemma but I call my partner bunny to and I know it would upset them if I suddenly stopped, that would be a pretty good way for me to show them I’m mad.
I hope everything works out okay for you both, I’m sure it will. It wasn’t a nice experience but he clearly keeps you from his parents because he knows how awful they are and wanted to protect you from them so keep that knowledge and understand he’s not mad at you really, he’s upset at his situation with his parents
Yeah, sounds like classic pyromania, she probably displays poor impulse control in some other aspects of her life too.
These days its thought to be a type of OCD. Unfortunately its hot to help her unless she can admit it's a problem.
Depending on how enmeshed in her life you are, you could talk to her GP as well as her family.
Might be a good idea to contact your local fire station and see if you can come in for an informal chat. They might have some resources to help you and they also would benefit from knowing her location.
That said, if youre not up for a relationship with someone with disordered thinking then its ok to walk away from this one.
I don’t understand how either of you think he can veto a breakup.
Tell him you don’t want to be with him, then block his number.
He literally cannot make you stay with him. That’s not how relationships work.
If he harasses you after you block the number, go to the police and file a report to document. Keep doing that until they get sick of you and allow you to press charges.
There’s literally nothing he can do to force you to be with him.
She's mad that yall got a piece of mail that had the same last name on it? When yall are married? Yeah that's petty. As for constantly dumping on your family for no reason I'd just tell her that she's welcome to feel however she wants about your family but you're not going to listen to it anymore and she can keep those feelings to herself.
I think you are completely naive to what you are actually dealing with, which allows you to delude yourself into believing he’s a sociopath with everyone but you. IF you are going to stay in this relationship you need to educate yourself instead of burying your head in the sand.
There is no way to keep them both happy here. Your boyfriend doesn’t like your mom for telling the truth and your mom doesn’t like your boyfriend because he’s potentially a danger to you and your child.
Nah, she ain’t a nice girl fam, she’s for the streets and even they don’t want her. She’s a certified cuntnugget.
Dude you need to prove intent for it to be sexual blackmail. OP taking pictures because she was panicked and couldn’t fully comprehend what she was seeing doesn’t mean she had intent to expose him. Chill tf out. Besides, she said they’re deleted now.
Sorry I’m not contributing much about your dilemma but I call my partner bunny to and I know it would upset them if I suddenly stopped, that would be a pretty good way for me to show them I’m mad.
I hope everything works out okay for you both, I’m sure it will. It wasn’t a nice experience but he clearly keeps you from his parents because he knows how awful they are and wanted to protect you from them so keep that knowledge and understand he’s not mad at you really, he’s upset at his situation with his parents
Looking and acknowledging someone is attractive is not the same as fantasizing about someone else sexually and pleasuring yourself to them.
Yeah, sounds like classic pyromania, she probably displays poor impulse control in some other aspects of her life too.
These days its thought to be a type of OCD. Unfortunately its hot to help her unless she can admit it's a problem.
Depending on how enmeshed in her life you are, you could talk to her GP as well as her family.
Might be a good idea to contact your local fire station and see if you can come in for an informal chat. They might have some resources to help you and they also would benefit from knowing her location.
That said, if youre not up for a relationship with someone with disordered thinking then its ok to walk away from this one.
… it's like warm apple pie …
I don’t understand how either of you think he can veto a breakup.
Tell him you don’t want to be with him, then block his number.
He literally cannot make you stay with him. That’s not how relationships work.
If he harasses you after you block the number, go to the police and file a report to document. Keep doing that until they get sick of you and allow you to press charges.
There’s literally nothing he can do to force you to be with him.
She's mad that yall got a piece of mail that had the same last name on it? When yall are married? Yeah that's petty. As for constantly dumping on your family for no reason I'd just tell her that she's welcome to feel however she wants about your family but you're not going to listen to it anymore and she can keep those feelings to herself.
I never said they needed consent to have children. Consent is required if you want the other person in the child's life and/or support
I think you are completely naive to what you are actually dealing with, which allows you to delude yourself into believing he’s a sociopath with everyone but you. IF you are going to stay in this relationship you need to educate yourself instead of burying your head in the sand.
There is no way to keep them both happy here. Your boyfriend doesn’t like your mom for telling the truth and your mom doesn’t like your boyfriend because he’s potentially a danger to you and your child.