You need to sit down and have a serious conversation. Approach her with compassion and understanding, but express that this isn’t sustainable for you. Maybe it’s worth going to a sex therapist. If she is asexual altogether, maybe she would be open to opening the relationship so that you can have your physical needs met by another. This idea may not be the true solution though so I’d highly recommend therapy first.
I don’t really think you can save this relationship. He is clearly cheating, both emotionally and most likely physically. The ring is another red flag, his lying about it. You should consider a plan to separate from him and make plans to coparent with your child and for him to pay full support, unless he will go completely NC with this other person, establish and keep acceptable boundaries for you to be safe and go to counseling. If he cannot do this for you, he is not the one for you.
bet he’s wondering which one you’re banging next
I would largely agree with this although I did not take this advice myself lol
You need to sit down and have a serious conversation. Approach her with compassion and understanding, but express that this isn’t sustainable for you. Maybe it’s worth going to a sex therapist. If she is asexual altogether, maybe she would be open to opening the relationship so that you can have your physical needs met by another. This idea may not be the true solution though so I’d highly recommend therapy first.
Just let him know that not forgiving him for calling you names is part of your character.
I am very sorry for your loss.
I don’t really think you can save this relationship. He is clearly cheating, both emotionally and most likely physically. The ring is another red flag, his lying about it. You should consider a plan to separate from him and make plans to coparent with your child and for him to pay full support, unless he will go completely NC with this other person, establish and keep acceptable boundaries for you to be safe and go to counseling. If he cannot do this for you, he is not the one for you.
we did it so we both had the same personal money left each month