They weren't married. You live with the consequences of your decisions.
Have you even read what I wrote? I said legally he is in the clear doesn't mean that it's morally the right thing
Assuming facts not in evidence..
That's not an assumption. If she wasn't there he would have to pay for childcare and do all the chores himself so essentially he had a live! in nanny for free. Which would have cost him much more than 500£ a month.
And she can't work if she has to stay home and watch th kid.
Yeah of course consequence of her actions. What actions giving up her career to care for his child and keep his home clean. That's why she deserves to suffer now?
I know a lot of you are going to say just leave and all of that.
You know this because you know it's the right course of action. You moved in with a violent coke addict, with no getting to know you period beforehand. He's been cheating on you the entire time. You're only 18. You aren't even finished finding out about yourself and who you are yet, and you're trying to settle down with a walking red flag.
After you've been in a couple of relationships you'll realise how much of a mess this one is. Just don't get pregnant with this mess
Well whatever may happen if you love him you should tell him, as it is not just about you. You are not doing it for yourself, but for his sake, and he deserves to know.
He claims my apartment alarms are sensitive because they don’t do that at his and yes he eats it but I don’t know how he does it
They weren't married. You live with the consequences of your decisions.
Have you even read what I wrote? I said legally he is in the clear doesn't mean that it's morally the right thing
Assuming facts not in evidence..
That's not an assumption. If she wasn't there he would have to pay for childcare and do all the chores himself so essentially he had a live! in nanny for free. Which would have cost him much more than 500£ a month.
And she can't work if she has to stay home and watch th kid.
Yeah of course consequence of her actions. What actions giving up her career to care for his child and keep his home clean. That's why she deserves to suffer now?
I know a lot of you are going to say just leave and all of that.
You know this because you know it's the right course of action. You moved in with a violent coke addict, with no getting to know you period beforehand. He's been cheating on you the entire time. You're only 18. You aren't even finished finding out about yourself and who you are yet, and you're trying to settle down with a walking red flag.
After you've been in a couple of relationships you'll realise how much of a mess this one is. Just don't get pregnant with this mess
Well whatever may happen if you love him you should tell him, as it is not just about you. You are not doing it for yourself, but for his sake, and he deserves to know.