Honestly, get rid of Jill. She sounds like she does not have your best interest at heart. And I sure as heck would not want the other woman anywhere close to you or your significant other. Look what happened last time.
Therapy for you would be nice. But either way, you deserve to be surrounded by people who like and love you – and your husband is not such person. Life is too short to be tied down by dead weight and, even if you were to die in a week, what lesson would you like to leave for your kid? Tolerate people who hate you and stay tied to them or always seek for as much happiness as you can get in life, no matter the circumstances?
Find a lawyer. Follow whatever he tells you to do like gospel. Let him deal with your husband and his family for you. Meanwhile, focus on whatever makes you happy: learning a new language, trying the piano, cooking lessons, knitting, planning small getaways for you and your daughter. It will be hot in the first days, but it will get easier. You deserve more out of life than staying married to him.
since we agreed on never hitting the puppy,
Like it was ever up for debate??!?
Rehome it, wtf you doing letting her get away with that shit.
If you heard of someone else hitting an animal you'd be like ” nah its cool ” ??
the fuck
Maybe post in the ENM and poly subreddits. Might get more specific advice that way.
Honestly, get rid of Jill. She sounds like she does not have your best interest at heart. And I sure as heck would not want the other woman anywhere close to you or your significant other. Look what happened last time.
Therapy for you would be nice. But either way, you deserve to be surrounded by people who like and love you – and your husband is not such person. Life is too short to be tied down by dead weight and, even if you were to die in a week, what lesson would you like to leave for your kid? Tolerate people who hate you and stay tied to them or always seek for as much happiness as you can get in life, no matter the circumstances?
Find a lawyer. Follow whatever he tells you to do like gospel. Let him deal with your husband and his family for you. Meanwhile, focus on whatever makes you happy: learning a new language, trying the piano, cooking lessons, knitting, planning small getaways for you and your daughter. It will be hot in the first days, but it will get easier. You deserve more out of life than staying married to him.
Get it sorted through the courts.
You gotta let go man
For your sake at this point
I have only seen my husband act violent once before the incident with my father and never since.
Like mother like daughter huh?
How many people need to tell you to call a lawyer? I’ll be one more.