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Panties off [Multi Goal]
Date: November 19, 2022
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Panties off [Multi Goal]
Why can’t he gift this trip to you? That seems reasonable, especially if you haven’t met his family. He is asking you to borrow money to meet his family, which is what it boils down to.
Firstly and most importantly, congratulations on achieving your Master of Finance. Well done to you for putting in the effort, late nights, and early mornings and seeing it through to the end. You absolutely deserve to celebrate your achievement because it is a big deal.
Now as to your bf, well, in a nutshell, he's belittling your success because minimizing you makes him feel big. His ego is wounded so instead of being happy for you he's wounding you to keep your relationship dynamic where he feels the most comfortable. The other reason could be that he's a narcissist.
It's not your problem to fix but it is your job to advocate for yourself and call him out on his lousy behaviour.
So now it's time for you to do some reflecting on how you want to proceed from here. Maybe speak to someone you trust to help you get your thoughts straight.
Best of luck to you.
he’d be ok with it but my issue is that it seems like he’s protecting me from knowing something. I guess my real question is, should I trust him on that?
You’re not overthinking this. This is OMLY the beginning. If you’re not willing to put in WORK .. run immediately! I have had my fair share of mil problems and there is nothing you can do about it. It’s her son that’s in control of the situation you end up in. Since he is still very much under her control it will take many years to change that relationship. If that is even what he wants. Ask him if he’s willing to change and think very very hot if this is what you want. You will never be able to enjoy time with your in-laws. Once you thought about it you can decide if it’s worth you time. You’re only 7 months in. Ties are crossed easily. Wishing you good luck ?
Its less of a talk with her about her friend and more of an issue in the relationship. If your comfortable talking with her, explain it more or wanting a stronger relationship and not wanting someone who feels you two should not be together. If her friend works to get into the middle of your life together, than its is a choice to keep her around.
If your thinking of an ultimatum than you may as well try before you go to that point. It would be better to point out the negative way her friend effects your relationship and come to the conclusion together.
Hope it works out for you
You were single earlier this year. When it was 2022.
Only you can truly answer that, but personally I think I would give it a go.
A 40 yo who can't handle period blood and thinks you stained his sheets on purpose?? Yea, not woth staying with in any kind of capacity
A friend of mine is now a judge, before that she was a public defender, and before that an assistant county prosecutor. She mentioned once that they take seriously when there's evidence of someone killing or abusing animals, as that behavior correlates with breaking other laws. If the police won't help, look around for other options, like the anti-cruelty society and such.
I don't have much advice but holy fuck
Again I'm not expecting texting all day I want too ow what's up with the behavior changed… I asked her alreadyand she just said busy.
If you were to open the door to possible reconciliation, do so in a family therapy setting. It doesn’t make sense to do it in any other format, until some kind of trust is built. If it can be built. I’m sorry you went through all of those things, and whatever decision you make I hope you find peace in it.
Buy her some Beano with a note saying something like “thought you could use this”, if she asks about it then tell her the truth.
it’s your call, but 4 years man, come on there is no way all this time she has been interested in you. She ran through some guys and wants to use you as her “backup” plan