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Date: November 19, 2022
Seems you don’t have fully trust in that person and this will never serve long terms relationships, break it off and move on with your life . That’s my advice to you .
We bicker recently about money, he saves more than me. Plans for the day, he likes to be up early and I move slower. And other day to day things. When we come together we come up with resolutions, but it feels like whenever we work hot to tackle one problem, another one arises and we have to do it all over again. Neither of us have had this issue in previous relationships. But neither of us have dated someone like ourselves before.
Okay, so what I would want my husband to do in this situation is to be straight with me. So…
Tell her that you love the sex you do have, but you've been hoping for a bit more. Let her know that her initiating and wanting it is something that makes you feel wanted and secure in the relationship – something that isn't happening anymore. Ask her why the change – if its still stress, ask her what you can do to help. Or, if she just hasnt been feeling it, ask her what you can do to help her maybe feeling more up to it. Hire a babysitter and take a mini vacation – even if it's just renting a room with a jacuzzi tub and getting some takeout and a bottle of wine? A massage from you? Hopping in the shower together? Maybe shopping for some lingerie or toys? Anything you can think of that might reignite her interest.
I've always had a problem with going from driving my husband nuts because I wanted sex so much to feeling like I could go years without and be perfectly fine. During my “droughts” at first, I would feel a little attacked by him when he would mention my lack of a drive, almost like he was more concerned with getting off with me like I'm some tool than with how I felt and it took him explaining to me how it made him feel like I didn't love him or didn't find him attractive anymore to snap me out of being totally self-absorbed with the matter. Maybe that's how she is feeling? We did things like above ^ to kind of get it going again. It still happens every once in awhile but after so long, we just do it again and it's worked like a charm.
Gigantic red flag. It's not about the ponytail. It's about control, and him seeing if he gets away with controlling your appearance by making a lot of manipulative actions and making such a huge deal about it, that it warps your reality because this can't be normal and there you are, so shaken that you think you did something wrong. And control doesn't end in a simple ponytail, that is how it starts in this case. If you obey him now, he will know that he can get obedience from you by pulling this act again with another thing he wants to control about you, it will really be the frog in the slowly heating water when you look back in a few years and wonder how did you get to that horrible life situation.
You say that you are tired to wonder how he feels, which means this manipulative behavior is happening over and over. RUN. End the relationship now. No explanation needed, just tell him “this is not working for me” and end it, don't get dragged into an argument, break ups are informative, not a debate.
A normal person that doesn't like a certain style in which you comb your hair would tell you “I'm sorry to tell you this, but I don't think the ponytail favors you, I like how your hair looks on you when you do this other style”. They wouldn't be angry and treating you badly because of your choices regarding your hair.
This IS abuse, OP. This is a horrifying thing to do to a person – force parenthood upon you, crossing all kinds of boundaries without any warning or consideration, and ignoring your concerns on top of all that!
This isn't a healthy poly relationship, and it really sounds more like your wife has found her new partner – new as in replacing you. Not keeping along with you. It sounds like your mental health is tanking, and you currently have no obligation to this baby. Leave before it's born, OP. You leaving won't be enough to make her lose the baby. Stress isn't *great* for pregnant people, but it's not actually that easy to cause a miscarriage unless there are underlying health issues.
So the problem isn’t that she wants to go out and do things, that is actually a good thing.
The problem is what did she do that night out with her friends, to have her change her behaviour, attitude and mind so much.
It’s probably good idea to sit her down, tell her that you need her to tell you the truth.
Lay out the massive changes in her behaviour and actions like you did here. And get her to explain them – not going to lie, the normal reason for such a shift is that they cheated on you.
So get her to tell you the truth about that night, and her real reason for the change in behaviour, attitude and actions.
Then YOU decide based on what she tells you, if you still want to have a relationship with her.
Naw…. from those that dream of big extravagant proposals, weddings, and receptions…. and haven't actually planned for the lifelong commitment that comes after all that.
LOVE what you and your lady did. That sounded like fun.