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JohnLacock/foxyboxx, 29 y.o.
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Date: November 18, 2022
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Can't upvote this enough. You are either paying rent to a landlord or your BF. It's still rent. It's still the cost of living somewhere. I don't understand this mentality that people have about paying rent in a spouse's house. You aren't at risk if he defaults on it, so you should not get equity.
That said, you must protect yourself with tenant rights. Draft a contract similar to a lease. As stated above, do not contribute to taxes or renovation. It is unfair for an owner to ask a tenant to pay those bills.
I would also negotiate a more fair split of chores. Being a homeowner does not forfeit your duty to clean or cook.
Lastly, have an honest conversation about what will happen if you decide to marry. That is the true dealbreaker conversation. He will either work with you on a fair plan or insist on sole ownership. At that time, you have a choice to either suck it up or bail. But that conversation should not happen until the both of you have rings on your finger.
This can’t be real. I refuse to believe this is real. Nobody is so pathetic.
It's a perfectly valid feeling on your end. All I can say to that is communicate to her. If it's not something she's willing to change on, you two might just be incompatible.