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Date: November 18, 2022
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I'm a big advocate that everyone should go to therapy, just to deal with the stressors of everyday life.
Trust me, you don't want him to come to you about everything. I've had partners that have tried to use me as a therapist in the past, and that kills the relationship.
Sounds like your colleagues aren't bothered, you're not bothered, but your friend is and she doesn't work there so it isn't any of her business.
IMO you handled it just fine.
I would at least scream back once, so he has to put up with it from the other side for once in his life.
But yeah, you don't want to be tethered to him for the rest of his life.
It's their own place?!
The audacity and entitlement of some people… honestly!
This situation isn't as “weird” as you think. When someone is as flirty as this guy is it would be pretty normal to become interested despite you being coworkers and him already being in a relationship. But if you think you're the only one he's doing stuff like this with you're almost certainly wrong. Someone with so little respect for the partner they already have isn't going to limit their extracurriculars to just one person. You're obviously allowed to feel any way you want to feel. However, from losing your job to having your heart broken by this person who can't do monogamy, the price you'd pay for going after this would be very high.
Assuming this is a shitpost, but nonetheless here goes:
Wasn't there a very recent post from the boyfriend? He met the other woman through church around the same time as OP. Other girl wanted him. He at some point told her that he was with his partner and is dedicated to that relationship.
So he proceeds to not address or shut down the touching, other close contact, gifts and, oh yeah, that the girl told him she wanted him. All that attention must have felt reeeealy good.
So he shuts nothing down with this chick, and then goes on a trip with this other her and lies about it to (possibly) OP.
If I were OP, I would be done. He was chased and willingly caught.
I asked why she did this for 18 months if she knew it was wrong. She said the sex was crazy and at the time the fantasy of fucking a married man was too hot to resist.
I could see she was turned on by telling me all this. I was unsure how to feel about it all.
These two statements are enough to realise that she doesn't see cheating as wrong and she really hasn't changed. The fact she was getting turned on by just telling you this, shows that she still has that wild side but that's just for that guy only.
I would have said that you should try talking things with her but after reading the complete post, breaking up with her now is the best option where you can move on from her. You don't have kids so it will be a clean break. Save yourself from future heartbreak and end it now while you can with minimum damage.
I can assure you that the information you have got will not leave your mind, if you will rug sweep the affair it will come back to haunt you and if you hold that information longer it will impact your mental health.
So explain to me how a person who enjoys casual sex is comparable to a drug addict.
This is groundbreaking stuff here. You should write a whole book about this topic. I know I'd buy it.