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Date: November 18, 2022
Trust is gone.
Do not feel bad about the snap chat. If she is cheating it is much much worse.
I think you will soon break up unless things are clarified.
You need to sit down and talk about it – be honest about what you feel and about what you did.
If you can not be open and honest – then your relationship is anyway over.
If she has cheated you need to be clear if you want to try to continue or not.
If you want to continue and she has cheated – then you need to forgive her if you want to continue. The same goes if you do not want to continue – forgiveness stops anger.
Just remember she might love you as for her love and sex is not the same.
Finally if you stay together – fix your schedules!
I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like your compatible. You shouldn't be made to feel bad just because you want sex – that's a normal, healthy part of any relationship.
I've been/am in the same situation as you. Same kind of ex and same kind of current boyfriend. Yes, my boyfriend also agreed that no porn was the best for our relationship. He said himself that he didn't want to watch it because it is not healthy in a relationship. Yet he seems to admit to using it whenever he is angry with me over something. Once he admitted to using it and his reasoning was “because I was angry with you” (we'd had a fight previously). Which makes me nervous every time we get into a fight. If I piss him off then I will have to put up with his porn use that we BOTH already agreed was bad for us. Yesterday we fought again over something entirely else, and admitted to having watched porn that same day. It's weird that some guys just lie instead of being straight up with their partner about it. Because the most painful thing is knowing they lied to you about it (for who knows how long), not actually the porn.
I applaud those who are able to accept porn in a relationship, but some of us just can't accept it. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Feel your feelings. If something feels wrong for you, then that is valid and your partner should respect that. You set your own boundaries, and if your partner agrees, but continues to break your trust repeatedly by lying about it or hiding it, then you should maybe reconsider if this is something you will be able to on-line with.
The question is if you will be able to trust him again after crossing your boundaries that you both agreed on. I personally wouldn't trust a porn blocker. If you feel like you have to use that, then it becomes a bit too obsessive and unhealthy imo. Have you asked him how he would feel if you got off to videos of other men? Someone else commented that he might enjoy the idea of you only being sexually stimulated by him while he can do whatever he wants.
No. Absolutely not. And you need to put boundaries with this best friend. Your “relationship” with her is not appropriate at all.
Just because you sleep with other people together doesn't mean these types of boundaries are okay.
Even if your gf brings up her best friend being the third I would say no because it complicates everything and you would obviously be extremely excited. Your gf could get jealous and this could ruin your relationship and her friendship. I've seen it happen with people who were steady and had a strong relationship for more than a decade.
Distance yourself from her and get her out of your mind.
Your girlfriend has already proven that she's morally bankrupt. The best thing to do is move on.
Your girlfriend has already proven that she's morally bankrupt. The best thing to do is move on.
anything that makes the baby sleep mate, do, its not a reflection on your relationship. its for the sake of everyones sanity ?
25 is not a child.
There are amazingly attractive people in college, but she did well at college. So you thinking she’s jealous of you and that’s what the problem is shows you really don’t understand the problem.
What the problem is, hard to say. Maybe you’re self centered, maybe you care more for the attention of others that validate your good looks than you show interest in your child, maybe others see the same problem your daughter does but are too polite to tell you to your face. Who knows, but you need to stop dismissing your daughters feelings that’s it’s just due to jealousy and her not being good looking, and sit down with her and really listen to what upsets her. Maybe family therapy is needed, so she can better articulate why she’s upset with you. But if you want even a small chance to fix this, stop acting like you’re a victim and start trying to see where you could improve.
She’s a grown person. She shouldn’t be be doing petty things to annoy him into a minimum wage job. I don’t think there’s a way to talk sense into people like this.
There’s isn’t anything that happened as far as life changing events. Literally just sent her this message.
You don’t like me going down on you, you don’t like when I touch your breasts anymore, you shove me away and shun away when I try to initiate sex. I can’t help but feel like at this point it’s something about me, is dick to small? Is there something I’m not doing to make you more attracted to me? Do I not satisfy you? Is something going on that’s got you not wanting a sexual relationship with me? Am I not doing what you like to turn you on? I’m starting to build up so many questions on why our sexual relationship seems to be fading away.
And her response is this
No not at all I’m just tired justin I feel like my body is exhausted and idk why main reason I got all my levels checked. You are perfect.
If you’re not proud of who your partner is and you’d rather hide him from your nearest and dearest because he’s that off-putting I would seriously move on. You are too young to waste time on someone who doesn’t see anything wrong with one of your customers calling you useless.
Also keep in mind, you aren’t going to the moon. Depending on how things go, and what you’re comfortable with, you can always come home and visit your mom. Or go out for lunch or tea. You can do anything you want to do and you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. But no decision being made here is immovable, exile or banishment, or a death sentence. For what it’s worth, many people find that their relationships with their parents vastly improve once they no longer share a living space with them. Sharing space and compromising with someone you on-line with can be tough! Give yourself some grace for wanting to try something new and being on your own. It’s a completely normal thing and it will help you figure out a balance of how much you want to be on your own and how much energy you have to give to friends and family.
Figuring this stuff out is what early adulthood is all about. It will help you develop clear cut boundaries for yourself, because you’ll know exactly what you like or need and what you don’t like or need, you’ll be more in tune with your “energy meter” and when it’s starting to run on empty and you need a recharge in a space where you can be alone and quiet. And I truly believe all of this will help improve your relationships and make you happier than you thought possible. I am so excited for you! ?
You're a 'nepo baby'! I think you are seriously overestimating your value in the employment market. Most employers will question why you have only worked for your father. Any good reference will be suspect because you are the boss's daughter. Likewise I think you overestimated your potential in the dating scene. You probably realised that most men would not tolerate a fraction of what you put your ex through. On top of that you are a single parent approaching 30 who is still co dependent on your parents. You got the better deal out of the marriage and I hope your ex finds a decent partner who will always be on his side
My dude, you're 21, you have no idea what goes into a healthy marriage. Who cares that someone would've married you?
Sounds like steroid abuse to compliment narcissistic behavior. If he won’t get professional help then start the escape plan. You deserve to be treated with affection and respect. You should look into where you feel is the best place to end the union as residency has to be established first. Hopefully you get the problems addressed and save things but know that you do what you feel is best to have happiness in your life.
It’s probably not something that’s going to be discussed at a restaurant etc but at the end of the night, if you are kissing and there is chemistry, it will need to be addressed. You can’t just walk away if things are getting hard and heavy. Now would be the time to say “I want you to know I really like you, but would like to take things slow”
Unless you get someone equally as inexperienced, which could be ideal really.
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Damn I love honest, forward blunt people. Just saying
is spending more time together a possibility?
What everyone is saying is correct. You need to start moving on. Go out with friends, find things to distract yourself. She's being clear she's not interested in continuing a romantic relationship. And honestly it doesn't sound like a good option to be friends with her right now if you can't handle knowing if she starts dating someone. Which under no circumstances should you ask her about, especially if you don't feel like you could handle the answer. IF there comes a point where it's possible for you two to consider getting back together, you do not get to shame or guilt her if she's seen other people. Her value and worth are not defined by her body count, and decisions about her body are hers, not yours.
I know it's hot, but the best thing you can do is cut contact until you have some level of closure. If you keep stringing yourself along, you're not going to feel any better (trust me, I know from experience. I finally let my ex go and moved on and then met my amazing fiance). Try new things, get out, and experience things. Find things to fill your time. You'll meet people with similar interests who might help you move on.
Maybe she's going through some hormonal stuff?
Either way you guys clearly aren't able to communicate properly.
Therapy would be the only option if that's an option.
I see what you're saying and do see the validity in it.
I just wish this happened from the beginning instead of feeling like he has been unhappy all this time under a guise. It isn't as if I was like love me for being overweight or else it was the opposite and I was always upfront about the truth. He made me feel safe and secure physically and that has all been based on something untrue now.
I have tried and he just meets me with cruel comments when I try to talk.
Thanks!
You'll come back from it good as new. But my ex was a ragey little sprite too.
Eventually she started trying to hit me. Then she started bangin' someone else.
Cut your losses man. Life is too short.
Sry I didn't understand “enabling smb”, is it giving excuses?
It is absolutely not a big deal. You are right that joining would be a “sign of togethness and love,” but it is just a sign! The fact that you're getting married is a much bigger and clearer sign of togetherness and love!
IMO the last name discussion only really matters if you plan on having kids. Are you? You should talk about that situation more than this one IMO. Some solutions could be:
hyphenated names for the kids but not for you two kids have two different last names. One kids gets yours for their middle name, his for their last name. Next kids gets yours for their last, his for middle.
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This really depends on who you know this guy to be. He's still pretty young, some guys are really that dumb, or they just forgot to use their inside voice, or havent quite figured out their filter. If he's the kind of guy who's usually pretty thoughtful, you believe hes regretful and you can't really imagine him talking like this about any other time…. sometimes humans need a little grace. Even the best people make mistakes.
That said, if he generally makes fun of you, doesn't think of you or your feelings, talks about other women disrespectfully, or you don't think he's sincere in his apology, it's time to reevaluate how important this is to you and whether this is the relationship you want in your life.
We've been broken up for one week.
And thank you. It has been hard. I've already moved out. Trying to find my place in the world is really overwhelming and scary. I miss being a kid. I feel scared. But I hope I will find my way eventually, like you said.
Dense guy here, there is a lot of overthinking involved about relationships at work. You may need to go full blunt and say something like “I may be reading this wrong, but just in case: I am single and do enjoy (Coffee, tea, lunch, etc.). If you would like to discuss this further you have my number.”