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It's the tone. That statement was 100% unnecessary. He could've just said, “I'm not into being penetrated.” But instead, he turned it into a hostile remark about gay people which was totally uncalled for.
Being a man sex with a woman — regardless of what part of your anatomy she tickles — is never gay.
Only homophobes say stuff like that. She'd be well rid of him. OP sounds like a jerk.
Yeah you fucking can. She owes you nothing. And you’re not even doing it for her, you’re doing it for you.
Going through with the pregnancy is more risky than aborting this early into the pregnancy.
People on this sub care about your hypothetical child, and don't want to see yet another child grow up with an abuser as a father. Breaking up with him won't protect this child.
People on this sub care about your existing children already being traumatized. When kids know their mom is with a violent man who treats her badly yet she doesn't leave, it fucks them up. And don't imagine you're managing to keep it secret, kids always pick up on it.
It is selfish to chose hypothetical future children with a hypothetical “right” man over your existing children and the child you're considering having right now. Is your potential future happiness more important than the security and mental (maybe even physical) wellbeing of 4 children that you're responsible for?
ehhh when he is done they split 50/50. why should she have breaks all the time when he is working?
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So. My take on this is to advise you to have a real discussion, OP. You seem eager to make this work and are ignoring your own admissions of his downfalls. If you want to have this sit down, don't ease up.
If he dismisses you and turns it around, you need to walk away.
If he indicates it's how he truly feels, you need to walk away.
If he says he doesn't mean it or will change, you need to PRESS HIM. Why does he say things he doesn't mean when they're hurtful and misogynistic? Why did he think it was acceptable in the first place? How will he prove it's not what he believes? How can he show you it's not his viewpoints and what steps will he take to make sure he doesn't spout hateful rhetoric in the future?
Even with those presses, you need to trust your gut, not your heart. Because you have to recognize that by having this conversation, you're opening up to him continuing to do this, lying to you about it and hiding it better going forward. He might slip down the line. Might not. But you need to recognize that by even entertaining this discussion and staying with him, you're devaluing yourself. We don't always love the people that are right for us. I say break up and be with someone who wouldn't say any of that rhetoric to begin with, joke or not. But you need to do what you feel right with doing.
It’s not her cousin, it’s a friend her cousin.
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Well it depends on what you two fought and broke up over
Dump her lying cheater ass buddy. You will be fine without her. Better than ever.
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You say you didn’t have issues with breathing while you were staying with her mother? I agree that this sounds more psychological. And kind of like you’re OCD. You’re okay with it outside your home, but not in your home?
Sheets are recommended to be changed weekly. Wouldn’t changing the sheets more often be an adequate compromise? There is also hypoallergenic bedding you could look into, if this is a real issue and not in your head.
What he asked is absolutely, 100% reasonable. Also reasonable that she isn’t comfortable with it.
Based on what OP wrote, it doesn’t sound like the partner is pressuring her or repeatedly asking. All she said is that he suggested it which is perfectly fine.
Big fat red flags babes. Man, she can have him. Just leave them to it.
Literally it's why I don't talk to many men about my sexual trauma they almost always have a reaction where I have to reassure/calm them down. Like homie I was the person this happened to why am I calming you?
Yeah he's allowed to want it, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea to phrase it out the gate as “I do this so you should do it back”. Better to sus out of it's something the other person would enjoy without the transactional pressure. Maybe she's just scared to try it for the first time but really wants to. Figuring out the reason she doesn't first without pressure is ?.
honestly this is the only solution that makes sense
We are together and on-line together…im not stalking him. We have a relationship.
Why do you care? She is your EX.
Wait is she asking you to make a monthly payment on the phone itself? As in, you financed it? If so, that does seem fair to me (unless she also used a loan to buy your PS5).
But if she’s asking you to pay for her phone plan, that’s super silly.
Why do you care? She is your EX.
I literally listed 5 or 6 things not 10-20. It's not that hot to say I cook dinner 4 times a week, I take care of all the cleaning except she vacuums on the weekend.
Why would you not want to make your partner's life easier knowing you have more free time? Why wouldn't you use a portion of your 20 extra hours of free time to make things easier on your partner so they would stress less and have an easier time when they get home? Why wouldn't you?
Yup, you are totally plan b.
Cross stitch?!?!
You wild, woman!
You've been together for 7 years. Have a conversation with him about your expectations and desires for your future. Buying a house is not a commitment to a relationship. It's a commitment to a mortgage and likely a huge headache if you split up without a specific contract in place dividing assets.
If your relationship is so fragile it can't withstand a serious conversation, wouldn't you want to know that now?
Just let her go.
scented tampon?? Do not put anything scented inside your vagina, please lol.
Just use a normal tampon. Scented products increase your changes of BV and yeast infections, and are bad for general vaginal health. If you're worried about your scent, just wait it out. Otherwise you're asking to make that scent waaayyyyy worse with an infection.
He is showing you who he is, hand him an eviction notice!! You shouldn't even have to ask the person living in your home to delete the pics, he should have done it on his own.
Even if it were FDA approved and reliably detected infection, it literally would not apply to most men and definitely not to OP since he did not receive anal sex.
Aww, do you think you can escape being cheated on by forcing this girl to live with you before it's time to do so? This is a recipe for disaster and you're actively creating it. Gag is your relationship would've mostly been fine if she just roomed with her friend but with the suffocating options you're giving her, I think you should expect resentment and pulling away.
Private photos of you and your ex? That sounds like an actual problem. I can see the posts now “I found hidden photos of my bf and his ex”
Tonight when you’re with her, you say “I got the results from the doctor, and it’s not good. I have zero sperm count.” And then the two of you can talk about what comes next. You’re a team, in this together.
Okay, sure. But literally every person that comes to mind fits scenario 1 not 2. And I also disagree that it's a problem exclusively for narcissists. Plenty of normal people are content burying their heads in the sand and have 0 excuses.
I'm sorry if you feel like my statements have attacked your situation in some way and being worn out by politics is one thing, declaring yourself above them is another entirely
I skipped it because you ninja edited it in after I had replied… Maybe get your full post out before hitting 'post'