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Date: November 17, 2022
Thank you for opening my eyes, i see it clearly now, i do need therapy as it seems.
The way you just worded it made me see that i was thinking illogically, nobody would infiltrate a group or something, that's just stupid.
How do i tell her but actually make sure that she wont distance herself from her friends, because i don't want that at all, i just want the jealousy to go away and never come back
He doesn’t love you. If he did he’d be living with you and not in a secret apartment where he’s got either another girlfriend or is bringing back hook ups.
You seriously haven’t realised this?
I know this is such a cliched answer but I wouldn't be doing my due diligence if I didn't lead with it: have you looked into therapy?
You're dealing with multiple issues that would really benefit from some professional guidance from a mental health professional. You've experienced the undeniably challenging battle of gender dysphoria and transition, which not many users on here will be able to truly understand. That, coupled with the jealousy and paranoia is very difficult to deal with, I imagine.
I'm in BPD recovery so I'm not stranger to intrusive paranoid thoughts. Sometimes I'd be in so much distress that my brain will keeping telling me “everyone hates you” when my eyes and ears can see that's COMPLETELY untrue. Verbal affirmations really, really, helped me through that. I write down the things I know to be true, irrespective of my feelings. I meditate and repeat them and it allows myself to battle the part of my brain that's messing with me. I hope that helps.
Is there any proof ? He doesn't have the receipt. He went out of his way to do this and there's no proof that he sent her anything.
It’s so creepy to keep anything!
This is the second time I’ve seen a post like this.
I would not trust an anonymous letter any more than I would trust an unsubstantiated rumor.
People do vile mean shit because they can. Someone wants your to buy your home? Causing a marriage ending fight might get you to sell it off. An ex with an axe to grind? Someone at work who is jealous you’re pregnant? With no identifying marks, it could be any reason. It could be some teenagers idea of a prank.
If you were thinking cheating was possible outside of this, investigate that.
she thinks the bank is stealing from her. It’s also happened with two banks now, so now she doesn’t trust banks under her name
That is probably the worst assumption to make.
And this:
Is now putting her paychecks on her ex-bf-now-but-still-living-together-on-and-off-bf-of-5-years
Is probably the worst follow up action you could do.
Yes, I would think your friend is 100% being taken advantage of.
Considering:
They live together while he manages the finances. ohmg that's so weird but don't be sorry its not your fault. He also filed her taxes last year, where she got a refund for, and then the IRS randomly took 800 away.
She sounds incredibly naïve and far too trustworthy of people…
Wow, thousands of dollars magically disappear.
Oh well, that's normal. Nothing to worry about.
Other people have direct access to my finances and I'll ignore it.
I bet these situations started to happen when someone was introduced into her life?
Okay so this sort of happened to me in collage, but the timeline was only a few months vs a full year. I met a guy through mutual work friends and it turned out we had a similar class schedule on certain days so we'd meet up 2 times a week for lunch and hang out in the student center. One day he texted me something that basically called me his girlfriend casually and I was like shocked pikachu face. I had a whole speech prepared for the next time we had lunch the next day, but then I was nervous and we just never talked about it, it was like it didn't happen. I wasn't sure what to do because I didn't dispel his notion immediately and then it just seemed like it was too late. I met family and friends and I really liked that group of people so I wasn't sure what to do because I didn't agree to be his girlfriend, but I didn't want to hurt him either. I decided to at least to get to know him and fortunately for me, I had legit been diagnosed with mono so was able to milk not kissing him or doing anything until I could figure out how I felt about the situation and ultimately how to get out of it. Basically I was able to be like I can't kiss anyone for a year due to mono, so you're probably better off finding someone else and he was like I'll wait for you and I was like, no it's okay, you go ahead, it's for the best. He ended up meeting his future wife shortly after and I ended up becoming friends with her too and the three of us would hangout all the time. I actually was in their wedding and ended up dating one of his out of state groom's men, that I met at their destination wedding.