Honey, you shouldn't be hurt, you should honestly be terrified. To say you are unreacting to this is a HUGE understatement.
You need to prioritize your own wellbeing and safety and to that end, you need to start planning your escape NOW. Nothing else matters. When he's not around, gather a bug out bag of your essentials, important docs, meds, small keepsakes, everything else? Forget about it. I know it's hot, but it's just stuff. Figure out a safe place to go-local friends or family who you absolutely can trust. Go there. Once there contact a lawyer immediately. If you can, find one who specializes in domestic violence because make no mistake he's abusive-emotional and psychological abuse is abuse. Listen to your lawyer who will likely advised NC.
National Domestic Violence Hotline Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ 800-799-7233
If you are worried she might become violent or aggressive, make sure you have others with you when you boot her out. And hopefully then the situation won't get out of hand. I would also think about security – eg can you get the keys back, do you need to think about changing locks etc? Doesn't hurt to be cautious.
Right, but she refuses to work. I have paid EVERY bill for the last 2 years. She hasn’t provided at all since he’s been born, I have. But I see what you’re saying.
Shallow and weird thing to get hung up on, but if you can't get over it you need to stop wasting her time and let her find a normal dude to date lol
Honey, you shouldn't be hurt, you should honestly be terrified. To say you are unreacting to this is a HUGE understatement.
You need to prioritize your own wellbeing and safety and to that end, you need to start planning your escape NOW. Nothing else matters. When he's not around, gather a bug out bag of your essentials, important docs, meds, small keepsakes, everything else? Forget about it. I know it's hot, but it's just stuff. Figure out a safe place to go-local friends or family who you absolutely can trust. Go there. Once there contact a lawyer immediately. If you can, find one who specializes in domestic violence because make no mistake he's abusive-emotional and psychological abuse is abuse. Listen to your lawyer who will likely advised NC.
National Domestic Violence Hotline Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ 800-799-7233
If you are worried she might become violent or aggressive, make sure you have others with you when you boot her out. And hopefully then the situation won't get out of hand. I would also think about security – eg can you get the keys back, do you need to think about changing locks etc? Doesn't hurt to be cautious.
You are such a toxic human being its disgusting. You've been unemployed for only 2 months calm down
Right, but she refuses to work. I have paid EVERY bill for the last 2 years. She hasn’t provided at all since he’s been born, I have. But I see what you’re saying.
Are you in therapy?
If you don't want just a hook up, then ended it and talk with the next guy. If you get the vibe it's probably true.