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Room for on-line sex video chat GabrielaHayes
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Date: November 17, 2022
Later that day, I messaged her trying to fix things…
I’m sorry mate, but you are a fucking idiot. Should have left her ass a long time before this. Now, who gives a fuck what she wants. As top comment said: cancel the gym membership and block her number, your ex is a POS. Now you are free, do whatever you want to do and go to whatever gym you want to, the only thing you are forbidden to do is ever speak with her again.
You don't have to like her choices. She's a grown woman. She's old enough to make her own decisions. I understand that you are tired of seeing her get hurt. I get that. I also understand being frustrated because you are her shoulder to cry on. However, YOU have allowed her to come to you anytime something happens! You have obviously not set firm enough boundaries.
If you don't want to keep consoling her. Then don't. But stop judging her. Stop shaming her. Stop calling her derogatory names. You have no right to judge her so harshly. It doesn't matter if she tells you everything. The fact that she does tell you makes it even more gross that you are saying such ugly things behind her back while she is sitting there thinking you are a ride or die bestie who will always have her back! If you actually cared about her, you would never have worded your post the way you have.
So, tell her you cannot be friends with her any longer because you don't approve of her life choices, if you must. But, I'm curious if you were speaking about a man, he wouldn't be called a “hoe” for having so many relationships and/or sexual partners! In fact, most men are applauded for hooking up as much as possible! No one is judging them. No one is calling them names. No one is trying to shame them like this, and all in the name of alleged “friendship”! I would really stop and reevaluate things, OP.
You've been dealing with his dishonesty for a year and now he's slipping on commitments he made you.
He needs to face his addiction or you need to get out.
And there's no such thing as a “good time” for something like this. Set a date where you are going to sit him down and tell him you're done with the behavior one way it the other. Why would you be extra nice for a month and then tell him you're fed up? That's just dishonesty.
When jealousy and rules become involved, you are no longer fwb. The whole concept of that is predicated on that you don't have input into eachother's comings and goings, you are just friends.
My advice is to draw this boundary. Either it's respected and you go back to being fwb (because you aren't now, you're something more) or you end it. Or you could stay in this awkward jealousy filled limbo state if you really want.
Wtf did I just read? He’s controlling and creepy. Run. You’ve been with him since you were 19-you may not know better but this is really not ok behavior.
I’m not even going to read the whole thing. She sounds exhausting.