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Date: November 16, 2022
Can you deal with it if nothing changes?
Because I know you want your father to change and his actions and words clearly show he can’t or is not willing to do so.
I know this hurts. I’ve been there with my mother. But recently she crossed an uncrossable line with me and as soon as she left my house I knew that we would likely not be speaking again.
This is what I am trying to remember: if I want something to change between us, I know that I am going to have to be the one who changes it. I’m the only person that I have control over. I don’t have control over her. I can ask her to change. But she has to be willing to do so and demonstrate consistency.
If you can accept that you’re father is likely not going to change and you will have to be the one doing the work of staying connected, then contact him. Let go of your anger and just accept what he can give you.
If you can’t, then don’t. You are the one doing all the work. Find new fathers figure in your life that you choose. I have several mother figures in my life who show me every day how much I am loved and wanted.
I know this is hot. I wish you nothing but strength and peace going forward.
She probably wanted to Have you over but her husband and kids said no!
Dude… wow. I really hope you understand where you fucked up in all of this. Just in case you're wondering what went wrong, here's what I noticed:
Never date coworkers. Never date anyone that's still in a relationship. Never agree to be in a secret relationship. Never indulge someone in their sexual affair.
I get you were trying to be the bigger person with the ultimatum, but at some point, you have to realize that it went on for too long. I don't think you're a bad person for coming clean, you're a bad person for coming clean way too late.
TBH? I'd leave the past in the past. This isn't behavior you engage in on the regular. It was a one-time(?) thing. If you feel compelled to tell her, I'd ask why? Hypothetically, if you had lost your virginity to… IDK, your housekeeper or dog walker, you may have still told her you lost it to the 2nd girl. You just wouldn't be questioning your decision. Perhaps you find losing your virginity to the housekeeper or dog walker to be more acceptable/less stigmatizing but still not something you'd want other people to know.
This is…….something
Please let his own parents know what he did. Stop by their house with a box full of his belongings and when they ask why, tell them. They raised him to be like this, they can see what this resulted in. If they raised him better than this? Then he gets to realize how badly he disappointed them. AT LEAST file a report, please. Take a friend with you. Get yourself good and worked up and mad first to help get past the hurt. Text him to ask him why he did this, tell him you KNOW it was on purpose, you just want to know why he took an intimate video of you without your consent and put it on social media…which means you can decide again in a few weeks with proof of his behavior. And send that to his parents, too. Letting his family and if possible friends know what sort of person he REALLY is, is a gift to them and to yourself. Finally, do remember that if he has NO consequences besides losing someone he didn't really care about to start with…he's going to do it to additional future victims. If you need a small final push, that thought might help. Please, if it's not the law, DO give him consequences by letting his family know. And the next person he tries this with, they can warn and will hopefully believe because they KNOW he did it to you 🙁
I guess I’m old and out of touch but I would never have accepted that situation. To me it’s just disrespectful for someone in a committed relationship to go on holiday without their SO with someone who clearly wants to break the relationship up.
Maybe he would be completely faithful but putting himself “in harms way” without you there is just asking for trouble. He should be thinking about being respectful of your feelings over having a vacation with friends.