Drop what you're doing today and get a meeting with a lawyer. Explain everything to them and follow their advice on moving forward.
Needless to say, the relationship is over. There is zero coming back from this.
Listen to what your lawyer says and get the fuck out of there. An accusation, not even charges, just an accusation like this has the potential to nuke your entire life.
Absolutely unacceptable. Both situations. He put you in an uncomfortable and even potentially dangerous situation and didn't care about your concerns or your safety? He manipulated you into doing that saying he is “testing your kindness”? Those are massive red flags.
The problem right now isn't even him: he clearly does not respect you or care about you. The problem is you. You have not set boundaries and he is walking all over you. You have to set a clear boundary: and that boundary is to break up and go no contact. He is abusing you and will continue to abuse you.
You need to leave this relationship. You deserve someone who actually respects and care about you.
Absolutely unacceptable. Both situations. He put you in an uncomfortable and even potentially dangerous situation and didn't care about your concerns or your safety? He manipulated you into doing that saying he is “testing your kindness”? Those are massive red flags.
The problem right now isn't even him: he clearly does not respect you or care about you. The problem is you. You have not set boundaries and he is walking all over you. You have to set a clear boundary: and that boundary is to break up and go no contact. He is abusing you and will continue to abuse you.
You need to leave this relationship. You deserve someone who actually respects and care about you.
I'm confused… If you actually trust your partner, then what's the issue? What potential outcome would you fear, if not infidelity? I'm actually baffled about where the problem is, or why the boundary would exist.
You are right. Its a lifetime sacrifice i'd never do. I'll let him choose his path and support him.
Drop what you're doing today and get a meeting with a lawyer. Explain everything to them and follow their advice on moving forward.
Needless to say, the relationship is over. There is zero coming back from this.
Listen to what your lawyer says and get the fuck out of there. An accusation, not even charges, just an accusation like this has the potential to nuke your entire life.
Two months before
Absolutely unacceptable. Both situations. He put you in an uncomfortable and even potentially dangerous situation and didn't care about your concerns or your safety? He manipulated you into doing that saying he is “testing your kindness”? Those are massive red flags.
The problem right now isn't even him: he clearly does not respect you or care about you. The problem is you. You have not set boundaries and he is walking all over you. You have to set a clear boundary: and that boundary is to break up and go no contact. He is abusing you and will continue to abuse you.
You need to leave this relationship. You deserve someone who actually respects and care about you.
Absolutely unacceptable. Both situations. He put you in an uncomfortable and even potentially dangerous situation and didn't care about your concerns or your safety? He manipulated you into doing that saying he is “testing your kindness”? Those are massive red flags.
The problem right now isn't even him: he clearly does not respect you or care about you. The problem is you. You have not set boundaries and he is walking all over you. You have to set a clear boundary: and that boundary is to break up and go no contact. He is abusing you and will continue to abuse you.
You need to leave this relationship. You deserve someone who actually respects and care about you.
I'm confused… If you actually trust your partner, then what's the issue? What potential outcome would you fear, if not infidelity? I'm actually baffled about where the problem is, or why the boundary would exist.