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Chill out. It’s Reddit.
I can see why this is annoying. His heart’s in the right place, but his follow-through stinks. Even though having to get involved in his gift giving after the fact makes the gift feel like less of a gift and more of a chore, that’s what’s going to have to happen with this guy.
Being willing to pay for a makeup solution is as far as his bandwidth goes. You’re going to have to spearhead the project – he’s willing to go along with what you want, but he doesn’t know what to do.
Same with the book. He tried & failed. Now you need to go to the bookstore with him and make an exchange.
There have been times in my long marriage that my husband has been similarly well-intentioned but devoid of follow-through. Not EVERY holiday; not EVERY gift, but some things that he wanted to “give” me turned into “my” project that he fully supported. And yes, it was annoying but not soul-crushing.
If you want to stay with him, you have to accept that he’s not a gift-giving guru. That’s not his strength – and everyone has shortcomings. You’re the only one who can decide if you can live with this one. It doesn’t seem like he doesn’t care or that he can’t be bothered to give gifts. It sounds like he’s just not good at it.