Run. Violence is never an acceptable response to being annoyed. He tried to hit you, then threw something at you, then threatened to hit you again. He is not a safe person to be around.
You mention the ways she’s working on herself. How about you? Do you feel like you’re accumulating small resentments? Do you feel like you can fully express yourself? Or set healthy boundaries with her? Is there unresolved trauma in your life too? I don’t say this to blame, but rather to indicate that these huge disproportionate reactions don’t come out of nowhere.
Certain things, like marriage or having kids, are things that cannot be compromised on. This will lead to resentment.
Run. Violence is never an acceptable response to being annoyed. He tried to hit you, then threw something at you, then threatened to hit you again. He is not a safe person to be around.
The transphobic, hateful answer.
The answer you'd choose if you're an asshole 13 year old.
You mention the ways she’s working on herself. How about you? Do you feel like you’re accumulating small resentments? Do you feel like you can fully express yourself? Or set healthy boundaries with her? Is there unresolved trauma in your life too? I don’t say this to blame, but rather to indicate that these huge disproportionate reactions don’t come out of nowhere.
its over sorry.