Two things. Have bro go to college. Even if he doe it entirely live that's still a few thousand extra for MHA. If you qualify for Fasfa then that even more money per month so you may not have to work if you don't want to. Coupling MHA, His job and fasfa and you'll easily clear 6 figures. More if he qualifies for disability as well. (Tell him to get disability even if he never went to medical. Pro tip from one vet to another.)
Second: It's 2023. Bro needs to pull his weight. Separate the chores down the middle and tell him to get cracking.
I sorry I know I am stupid but I really want it to work out .
The question is why? Have some respect for yourself. He obviously doesn't.
Two things. Have bro go to college. Even if he doe it entirely live that's still a few thousand extra for MHA. If you qualify for Fasfa then that even more money per month so you may not have to work if you don't want to. Coupling MHA, His job and fasfa and you'll easily clear 6 figures. More if he qualifies for disability as well. (Tell him to get disability even if he never went to medical. Pro tip from one vet to another.)
Second: It's 2023. Bro needs to pull his weight. Separate the chores down the middle and tell him to get cracking.
weird
Sounds like you are over his age limit. He is selfish. You should sleep in a different room, see if it helps and then make an exit plan.