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Thomas Falcon, 25 y.o.
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Date: November 15, 2022
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OP, he showed you his chats, he responded negatively to any and all attempts and all you had to do was give him the benefit of the doubt. However, in spite of that, you freaked out as if you caught him in bed with her.
All abusers “can truly be lovely” at times. It doesn't make them keepers.
You date to fund out if someone is a good match or not. He's not! He's a pouting, punishing, punitive child.
This kind of guy, who is punishing and giv3s the silent treatment and pouts is the mind who eventually becomes abusive.
He's already doing that by gaslighting you.
He's tired of you. You're tired of how he's behaving.
It's time to move on!
I'll say something that isn't popular to say, but I think it's true for women anyway: Once we start having sex with someone, we get flooded with oxytocin, which is the bonding hormone.
So our instinct tells us thar we must really love them. It's a deep, biological instinct.
Sex has that deep affect on us. I don't observe that to be as true with many men (But I'm not a man so I don't actually know).
It's hot to separate that hormonal bond from hard logic but you have to for your own mental health:
He is not a keeper. He's a jerk. He's abusive and mean to you. You have strong feelings because sex, oxytocin, bonding, and he can be lovely when he wants sex.
Ted Bundy's wife said he was lovely most of the time, too, but who wants to be married to Ted Bundy? Ok that was facetious to make the point.
You found out he's not a match. It's time to say bye bye and move on!
Pretty often, these guys use dating apps for a sex life but they don't want a long term commitment so they start to act out when you start acting like you expect commited behavior.
Blech!
First, you should never say that someone is trans to someone else without their permission in general, even if you you think that their identity is not a secret. It's not your place to share that information and you never know who will be a bigot. Plus, you can never take that information back. Once you've outed someone, that's permanent. Learn from this and don't do it again.
Second, you need to tell your friend about your mistake. They will only be more upset that you hid this from them if you delay doing so. They will find out eventually. They may be very upset that you did this, but telling them is the right thing to do. Make it clear that you are sorry, that you won't do it again, and that you want to do whatever it takes to make things right.
Finally, after telling your friend about your mistake, you need to ask them how they want you to handle the situation and do what they say. A good default option would be to let the people you outed them to each know that they need to keep that information to themselves, but you should defer to whatever your friend decides is best.
Dude. She could remove the IUD in 2 weeks and you guys could try the next morning. You're literally being a baby. Why would she want to give birth when she has you? Also, with the state of the world right now? She could die or be put in fucking prison for ai miscarriage. I don't blame her. That IUD could be illegal soon, too.