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Date: November 15, 2022
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This may not be the case for him, but I don't get snapchat notifications. They are turned on, I've even reinstalled the app, but unless I am on the app I don't get notifications. And even when I did, I'd sometimes ignore it and just message on messenger or wait until I spoke with them later.
One thing we all need to learn is to stop basing people's willingness to speak with us by how responsive they are on social media. It's unhealthy and is not at all reliable. I've had people who would ignore me in person but would message me 24/7, and vice versa.
Perhaps be upfront and ask if there is a reason your snap hasn't been opened, and confirm if they still want to speak or not. Relationships can be difficult enough as it is, no need to complicate it with social media expectations.
He was with this girl before you right? What’s the issue?
A lesson from a former counselor: unless someone asks for advice, a lot of time people just want to vent. They don’t want suggestions or comparisons to another situation. Just an ear to listen to them and empathize without problem-solving. When relationships get serious/committed, then it’s okay to ask whether they want feedback or just want to vent.
*so he is allowed to cheat. Because (if this is actually a true story), let's face it, he didn't actually want OP to sleep with anyone else. Just him.
we went to the movies and we were cuddling like normally then he put me on his lap and i was uncomfortable bc it was a public place and then i said i didnt wanna sit like that bc we were in a public place and he said that no one can see us. I was still really uncomfortable but i didnt push it bc i love him and i was like okay ig if he wants to. Then he hugged me and i hugged him back which also probably made him confused ig since i was basically giving mixed signals? I was still super uncomfortable and got really anxious then i just slid back to my personal space and he asked me if i was okay and i said ya i was fine. But i really wasnt i was just so nervous to tell him i didnt like that. And it reminded me of my past relationship where he was always pressured to do stuff i didnt want to do and never stopped when i said no. Weve talked about it before and he said he always wants me to feel safe and comfortable with him. hes never done anything where i didnt except with this the other day.
I think you're going to need to talk about it. Specifically and explicitly. “Babe, I was super uncomfortable when you pulled me onto your lap at the movies, I said no and you didn't seem to take me seriously, this was upsetting to me because I want to be able to say no and know that I can trust you to stop. I was afraid to say something in the moment but I was really uncomfortable.
i know if i tell him i felt like that with him hes going to feel so so bad and i dont want him to never hold my hand or kiss me or make it weird for us. Because i know if i tell him how i felt hes going to be extra cautious but in a way where he wont touch me at all and i dont want it to be like that.
Again, use your words. “I don't want you to take this like I don't want to hold hands or kiss, but I need you to listen to me when I say no.”