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If you’re in the US, regardless of being in her parents health insurance, she’s over 18 so her health records are private due to HIPAA. Once my kids turned 18 I stopped getting their EOBs (Explanation of Benefits)for their doctor appointments and they are available to my kids only, they had to get their own account to get the EOBs.
Depending who their insurance carrier is, I’d have her check if she can sign up for her own account access and ensure her EOBs are paperless so only she can access
Also, her mom didn’t have an issue with her going in birth control?
Im all for her getting the help she needs not just for your relationship but for her own wellbeing, but you need to be honest with yourself and see that for all the years you’ve been together, things haven’t changed and most likely won’t.
Yeah, same here. That is A LOT.
Please leave him OP. Don't stick around to be discarded.
Dude, I don’t have the time, energy or crayons to give you the flow chart of just how terrible this idea is.
Your wife is away, you want to keep secrets and meet an ex? Are you hoping she dumps you, because that’s what your playing with.
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I’ve since made a large spreadsheet detailing and comparing all the expenses and bills between the two places factoring in daycare and it is going to cost us over 60% more to live where he wants. We literally cannot afford to move there, and if we did we wouldn’t be able to save at all. If we needed to move again we wouldn’t be able to save up the expenses to do it so I would essentially be trapped there.
You are right. My mind was so fogged up before or maybe just too in love. After her reaction I see more clearly that he could've done much more to protect this relationship. Also sorry for yelling at u in the other comment
You have a child now. You have no idea what this guy is capable of, and if you have never dealt with trauma, trust me you dont want to know.
I know you are young but your going to have to wise up, like now-ish. Learn about safeguarding. Sorry to be harsh but as a mother you have to start making better decisions.
You cant throw caution to the wind when you are literally the live line of defence to a helpless toddler.
O_o
Do you honestly need us to tell that your gf is incredibly toxic, here?
what the hell, im literally gonna be ovulating when we meet next time
Um. No because you're not meeting him again, right? RIGHT?
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It's okay to accept a flawed friend. Everything your friends and family do is not a reflection on you. The only person you can control is yourself.
And that is how you should've explained it to your wife. That you understand what your friend did was very wrong, you don't condone it, and you are still willing to continue your friendship (if she is also remorseful of her own actions) given your long history together. Sticking with someone who did something wrong does not mean you condone their actions. People like to think it does, though. So given that you likely cannot change your wife's mind, you probably will need to choose if you're going to stick by your friend or cut off anyone your wife doesn't like. You've been friends for 20 years. Would you be forced to cut off contact with your sister if she fucked up too?
Can you get an itemized phone bill that shows the numbers she received texts from on Wednesdays?
Yeah, I think you need some really strong boundaries. You need to have a talk with her. Will you say look what you’re doing? It’s really bothering me. I want us to have a personal life as well as a business life. And then you’re gonna have to make an agreement that after six you don’t talk about work at all until the next morning. I’m not sure how you’re gonna enforce it with her maybe bribery. Maybe overnight and expensive hotel whatever you guys like.
He cares about me. But not enough to stop
I'm really sorry this is the norm for you. You're not alone, but it's still wrong and it's going to take its toll on you. Please leave him to protect yourself. Seek therapy with someone who has experience with sexual trauma, because that is what you are experiencing. If you are having trouble finding someone or paying for it, check out local organizations for survivors of sexual abuse. They will take you seriously and do what they can to help.
I don’t know how to move past from such a comment.
Like. I’d just break up.
I’d try and look for a guy that tells me he’s sexually attracted to me… every day! Because I need to hear that every day lol