I truly mean this with peace and love, I think you need to get your mental health in order before being in a relationship. Relationships are difficult mentally and it’s clear you’re already struggling, I think you guys should put the relationship on pause while you do some self work.
Fair enough, perhaps I misinterpreted the way you put it.
I know you’re feeling lost, confused and hurt right now – you want answers – that’s a reasonable request and you’re not getting them. But this might be a blessing in disguise, because if she just changes her mind like that and doesn’t tell you why, it shows a bit about her character that you didn’t know before.
I’d say cut your losses and find someone who deserves your time and attention
He has anxiety about something and maybe trying to help him fix it will be the answer. Now Men are CRAP at communicating their anxieties as they often think it will make them vulnerable, so he won't volunteer this information easily just by you asking if you can help.
It's a very difficult situation for you (and him) because maybe neither of you know what is the catalyst of this stress.
Maybe seeking professional help is the answer to get over that hurdle.
I truly mean this with peace and love, I think you need to get your mental health in order before being in a relationship. Relationships are difficult mentally and it’s clear you’re already struggling, I think you guys should put the relationship on pause while you do some self work.
Nah just a rando chick lol
Try to think of how selfless it is
When I clicked the comments were at 911 so I’d say yes, red flag. ?
Fair enough, perhaps I misinterpreted the way you put it.
I know you’re feeling lost, confused and hurt right now – you want answers – that’s a reasonable request and you’re not getting them. But this might be a blessing in disguise, because if she just changes her mind like that and doesn’t tell you why, it shows a bit about her character that you didn’t know before.
I’d say cut your losses and find someone who deserves your time and attention
It could be just that…. Stress
He has anxiety about something and maybe trying to help him fix it will be the answer. Now Men are CRAP at communicating their anxieties as they often think it will make them vulnerable, so he won't volunteer this information easily just by you asking if you can help.
It's a very difficult situation for you (and him) because maybe neither of you know what is the catalyst of this stress.
Maybe seeking professional help is the answer to get over that hurdle.
You need to stop spamming this. You’ve been posting this for months now. Stop and get over this weird fetish.