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Date: November 14, 2022
but as an abuse survivor, I know what he's doing.
I'm curious to why you're now electing to receive abuse?
You've done nothing wrong so my question is not of a judgmental nature, I'm genuinely just unsure why youd continue to partake
Not what this sub is for.
He didn’t? He promised her that he stops
A couple that isn't married but have a mortgage together are having issues! Wow. Surprise.
When you skip the steps where people have to face lifelong commitment or else legal intervention, then you're more likely to have an issue with the joint thing you buy.
It's easier for her to lie because she knows she doesn't have to commit to get what she wants. She already got your money tied into a house without a true commitment of her life. She feels like she can push that.
She's the one in the wrong. You should stop enabling. Is there a way out of the mortgage since the finances changed? Likely you'll be out the earnest money.
This is true and you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped, but it still sucks. You’re stuck between a rock and a very hot place. Tough love can backfire and make the person feel more alienated/feel like the other side doesn’t get it. Too much compassion and you’re smothering and the person withdraws even more.
Give yourself a chance to find the better person you see your future with who also sees their future with you (and no one else).
If she really sees a future with you, she'd stay with you and be faithful. But it sounds like she's using you as a backup/second choice in case the future she sees with other people don't work out.
It sucks to hear about being a back up but its good that you're not stuck with someone who will leave you the moment they see someone else. If you do decide on being friends, let her know that you guys will always stay as just friends…nothing more than that.
Step 1. Consult a divorce lawyer. Start working out how to end this marriage.
Step 2. Focus on yourself. Join a gym, sports clubs, go to a hair and beauty salon and have complete change of look.
Step 3. Move past this. A woman in their 30s is still in their prime, no matter what BS some men would have you believe.
You are worth more than some gaslighting, cheater, loser.
I’m so sorry! I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Please stand up for yourself whenever he resurfaced x
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Move on bro, don’t harass her
Sounds like she hasn’t moved on from the trauma. Also it’s normal to not want to delete every single picture. I still have pictures with high school exes…..so does my partner. It’s normal and we don’t read into it because there’s no reason to
It's possible to be too drunk too object or something like that but if she by any chance blew him I think she was way too active in this to claim innocence. Same if she went for a second or third round next morning.
Wtf is there to forgive her for? I also wanna know. For not wanting to be in the military? Maybe it was too stressful on her mental health and she chose to do something else! For not being a fucking idiot and thinking marrying outside of the boundaries of a country is okay?
For living her life and cutting her dad off for telling her he's disappointed in her choices to do so?
What bullshit is there that she did wrong?
That’s illegal. Send them to jail lol
I also should mention they said they don't care about slurs in direct response to me bringing up the N-word not derp
Do it before the holiday then. Chop chop! You’ve got planning to do.
Honestly though, don’t take the immature route of “you’re telling you want me to do it, and even though I wanna do it, I’m not gonna now”. She’s making it obvious because she wants you to know she wants it. If you don’t wanna propose and get married then that’s a whole different story. If that was the case I’d say you better be honest and tell her now and not be pressured into something you don’t want. But since you do want to, and we’re going to do it anyway, then just organise a surprise before the holiday.
That’d be better anyway, because then you can enjoy the holiday as a newly engaged couple without the potential proposal looming over your heads. Might I suggest something quiet, intimate, in nature, includes flowers and champagne (if she likes that kind of thing, otherwise her favourite drink in champagne flutes), include a song that’s important to you both, keep it personal. That way it’s easier to surprise her.
Anyway, good luck.
Lol I’m not wasting my breath here please see the last two comments like yours I refuted
This feels like some sort of gross power play….he basically said “here's a list of all the women I could bang if you step out of line”
Gross
Lol I’m not wasting my breath here please see the last two comments like yours I refuted
It's a lot to type out. She (used to) agree to meet guys for low-effort dates, they'd use her and discard her, and she blames the apps. One time in particular, I met her and her sister for dinner. They wanted to go to a local dive bar afterwards. Within minutes some guy tried to chat me up and the girls joined. The guy was trying to push coke on us and I told her but she wouldn't listen. I left and the next day she was like “wow, how did you know?”. Woman we are 30+ how do you not know???
Uh find the clit and use lube.
Oh my sweet summer child, this is normal to him. He barely hid his true self for very long and you accepted allllll his red flags he showed you. Leave him and raise this child as co-parents. Your self esteem will thank you.
I think we’re both willing to make that change. It’s just that maybe I got greedy and wanted more from her even though she’s slowly opening up. I also think I have to be distant because I can’t be too emotionally invested in this when she’s also distant . When she gets these moods I think I’ll just have to figure it out or maybe if I get lucky she’ll tell me.
The one thing that really pisses me off is she used rape as an excuse to cover for her cheating that people are absolutely looking over. Imagine if some innocent man got blamed for rape by her and went to prison, that would be absolutely enough for me to divorce her, on top of the cheating as well.
She is a monster, a literal monster.
1st having a friend of the opposite sex that you know intimate details of her marriage is crossing boundaries. You shouldn’t know anything about her sex life or intimate details of her marriage. Nor should she know anything about yours but I’m guessing she knows just as much detail about your marriage as you do hers.
She cheated when she could have left the marriage if it wasn’t up to her desires.
Your wife trusts you but she doesn’t trust the woman that you had conversations about her sex life & marriage details. If this woman broke up her own marriage she’d definitely have no problems breaking up yours is she wanted to be w you. But guess what? She’s already putting a wedge in your marriage because your WIFE asked you not to befriend her anymore because she has no morals and she doesn’t want her marriage wrecked either.
But you’re here now saying if your wife doesn’t allow you to still be friends w a cheater your marriage is in trouble. “Unfortunately it may cause strife in our marriage if we can’t come to a compromise “. So you’ve made up your mind you’re going to put your cheating friend above your own wife and marriage.
This should be a no brainer here. Wife doesn’t want me to be friends w a woman who cheated on her husband. Next thing would be I have to cut contact w you because y wife doesn’t feel comfortable that I’m friends w a single female who cheated on her marriage. So therefore I don’t want to hurt my wife. I wish you the best. And that should be it.
There has to be more to this story than what’s posted. You must be much closer to her than you let on. In any event this friendship makes your wife uncomfortable and that should be enough to cut the friendship. But you’re here to hear people tell you your wife is wrong and don’t listen to her. I haven’t even read any comments yet and I’m sure very few will side w you
Ladies and gentlemen, what the heck do her and I need to do to be more symbiotic?
Be closer in age. You're nearing 30 and she's just started her 20s
I agree with you, and I'm someone who has the same bias as OP It's something i'm working really very hot on getting over. I once watched this movie called “The Lovely Bones,” and anytime I see someone with a stache like that, I physically recoil. I literally had nightmares from that movie. Anyway OP you probably shouldn't call it a pedo stache.
You're getting older and less attractive
It's not her problem if her own safety is at risk.
It strikes me that these are superficial relationships that you are equating to love or loving feelings.
You don't know these women. You only see a glimpse of their life.
These women do not know you. They only see a glimpse of your life.
Therapy is a good start.
Well since you're not leaving (based on post history), there isn't anything you can do bc if you go against it, the abuse and controlling behavior will escalate.
My boyfriend consulted me on his house purchase we have been together a similar length of time.
I reckon she thinks you are getting married sooner rather than later
This is controlling behavior you pushed upon him for telling you the truth about something. You are unsecure.
You should really avoid long term relationships because you really aren’t good partner material.
If all it took was four months and some alcohol to get you to cheat (not “technically”, btw—you actually cheated) then you should stick with being single and having one night stands.
None of this is your girlfriend’s fault, either. You could’ve communicated your feelings or at the least broken up with her at any time if you were unhappy.
I'm pretty sure it was meant to be person to person. Believe or not there are many people out there who love the smell of farts. No it is not a Fact that all farts smell bad because “bad” is opinionated.
Turned what upside down exactly??… do you mean getting sober? Hahahah
great post and story. cut yourself free from these things because they arent for you. just be honest and if you can, be her friend but dont let it drag you down
Of course you should tell him. And, yes, it will crush him.
Stop trying to be more than a FWB and if you cannot handle that, do the right thing for yourself and break it off. It’s gonna hurt, but I did what you’re trying to do. I made the fwb who didn’t want anything more become my partner and it is one of my biggest regrets. I regret it every single day cause they made their intentions clear and that anxiety you’re feeling? It’s gonna get worse. I’m sorry you feel strongly about someone and it’s not reciprocated, but you deserve someone with the same goal as you
No one else has told me a 4 hour lunch is unacceptable? Really what I'm getting is that it shouldn't have just been the two of us which I'm not used to because as I say I have one on one lunches pretty often, I like having a small circle. I'm not really sure what you're getting at tbh.