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make my ass blush <3 [Multi Goal]
Date: November 14, 2022
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make my ass blush <3 [Multi Goal]
Without talking to your wife, see a lawyer regarding divorce options as well as protecting your assets in the long run should she divorce you later. Tell her that you are monogamous and you want her to keep her vows to you. Institute the 180.
If anyone wants to do this, I'm available to rent for cheap.
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You need to talk to him about this. It's weird enough that it could be bad, or it it could be a thoughtless thing on his behalf. However my experience with this is, he's probably more into his dog(s) than you. Not even in a gross way just you may find yourself in second place more than you'd like. Establish boundaries if you can, if you can't, well then you've determined his priorities.
But yes, you're definitely not overreacting or anything. I couldn't handle that.
It is never ok to force a child on someone. She’s a grown adult and is capable of handling life and making her own decisions and dealing with the consequences of her own actions.
Having a kid is a huge deal, life changer. They both aren’t being respect of you or inclusive of you. This is showing you that they both don’t value or consider you or your opinions or your marriage an importance. That’s not ok.
You can’t force someone into something like this. Tbh he sounds like a hobosexual (dude just wanting a free ride in life) so of course he was happy to assist in a pregnancy and is refusing to get work. He gets two women, locked in now, you and her providing for the baby and he can chill. Nope. I’d be leaving.
She’s an adult, don’t stay out of guilt for how she will handle it. You’re mental and physical well-being is just as important as theirs. Considering they aren’t looking out for you, you need to. Have a moment away from them and think long and hot and if you aren’t ready for a baby/ aren’t going to be ok for taking up their financial responsibilities/ not having a voice in your future. As they will continue to make plans without you/ disregarding you and your feelings. (Completely ok not being ok with this) leave.
You really do have just one life. Don’t waste it in people who clearly don’t care or respect you. The kid will also grow up knowing you resent it and that’s not good for kid either. They can’t handle or afford kid without you? Not your problem. They can trap you to stay through guilt and if they are going to make life decisions without you they can deal with the consequences without you.
Why do you think you can control how he feels and how he expresses himself after a breakup? You don’t have to understand it or like it, but he’s trying to take a positive outlook on being newly single. And it’s true, in a relationship you have to consider another person. When you’re not you can focus on yourself and be “selfish”.
Exactly: which is why you broke up.
You’re too busy for a relationship. He told you this. The effort you put in was minimal/not sustainable. So you broke up. You were planning vacations without him and giving him the “left over” time you had. I saw your Disney vacay comments and that you go 3-4 times a damn year.
You do not get to question why he’s happy now he’s single. You do not get to be upset that he’s enjoying his life. You do not get anything from him. And involving your parents in stalking his social media gives another reason as to why he was right to block your crazy ass. LEAVE HIM ALONE. You are not in his life anymore. You are owed nothing.
I don’t know about ended – but it’s certainly a red flag. Especially coupled with this letter!