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Date: November 14, 2022
Hello, I’m new here)Let’s play!)Xoxo #new#sexy#titts#skinny#c2c# [173 tokens remaining]
Men like you literally never come into contact with or appeal to strong women. You may think they’re strong (to pad your own ego) but they’re usually uneducated, dependent, minds warped by religion or culture to be submissive. No strong, educated, independent woman wants to be with a sexist, uneducated, outdated, controlling, superiority complex-having old man. If she does, she’s a weak woman, not a strong woman. You have only ever bagged weak, naive women. And none of them lasted did they?
Thats what i was thinking but i dont want to just make assumptions about him
Block and ghost him.
Best case scenario is you escaping him 10 years because you can't take the physical and emotional abuse anymore. You're 30 looking like you're 50, asking yourself how an out of state relationship messed up your life this much. And he leaves you for the latest person he's cheating on you with, but you and he knows that he's coming back so you can't move on. Either by yourself or with someone else. “No other man around his kids bs.”
Worst case scenario is murder suicide.
I know I'm assuming a lot, but it's because abusive relationships are so boringly predictable. It just feels intense and inescapable when you're in it.
You're out of state and he's not even your real bf yet. Block him and ghost him.
get him therapy. Video game addiction is a bad thing also just go out, meet with friends, maybe ask him for a break or plainly if it wokt get better, just leave this relationship
i'm not sure what you think could happen in a room when your boyfriend is alone with his sister but think about it in this way: do you think it's okay to be in the room with your brother alone? if yes, then there shouldn't be a problem with him being in the room with his sister alone. it kinda feels like you're more concerned over past incidents rather than this. otherwise, i think you might need to reflect a little on how much trust you have for your boyfriend.
She will treat the children the same way
To say I gasped…
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What do you normally fight about? How often?
Have you ever talked about your grievances calmly after you fight?
Have you forgotten other important things in the past or is this a one time thing? How often does he remind you of things?
Your wording about apologizing and whose “fault” a fight is is kind of odd. Y'all shouldn't be fighting that much (or at all) regardless, and it takes 2 to fight. Has he told you to leave him alone in the past? Have you ignored that and continued the fight in the past? From the little context you've given us, it seems like his instinct is to walk away and cool off when a fight starts, but you escalate by ignoring his wishes and following him. Is this a pattern?
Either way, y'all need to learn how not to have day long fights and how not to escalate/yell at each other. It isn't productive or healthy. It's always better to walk away and revisit the issue with a calm head
He pushed it too far to show you he could seriously hurt you. Yikes. For future reference always pre negotiate boundaries and have a safe word with anyone you engage in dangerous play with. Wrestling can quickly become dangerous as you just learned. You need to make sure that whoever you are roughly playing with is safe and consensual. This guy took it way too far. Do not roughhouse or wrestle with him again until you discuss what happened and make appropriate boundaries and safety measures in place.
You’re messing with her. Not cool.
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On one hand, the: “yeah everyone has video of her cheating, but I will not show it to you, even though I have literally told you on her” is the just load of bullcrap.
On the other, hand she has lost her memory? She means she has lost her memory when she was with her friends and that guy, but is somehow sure she hasn't cheated on you? Not to mention, she would have heard what happened from her friends after that. What I mean is that if her cheating is true, her not being aware of it is a lie.
I know it's impossible for both of them to be false. Does her brother have this supposed video. I mean as the number of people having it increases it should be easier for you to obtain it. Assuming it exists and you are in good relations with her brother even if he does not have currently he should ask some of her friends (except the snitch) about it subtly. He either gets confirmation or video, or indecisive statements that is the same as confirmation or firm denials from all sides.
Sometimes your only choice is to remove the cause of the insecurity
YES. They deserve to know.
Then get the fuck out of here.
23 year old little adult here, I also wouldn’t date a 19 y/o because I remember being 19 and my maturity even four or five years ago was not there like I thought it was, and I’m sure I’ll be a completely different person at 29! I was also most definitely a full blown child (with too many responsibilities) at 19.
My recent ex is 29 and even the six year gap was too much I think, and I’ve dated 30 years my senior before. Learned my lesson.
Your EX-girlfriend is incredibly immature, and you and your family are solidly decent people.
Thank you for the comment
That's exactly what I was thinking but was conflicted about it. She should be considerate of what I am feeling but at the same time, I'm not holding it against her.
If this was reversed, I will no doubt have supported her. I just can't see why she finds a problem with me doing this
My husband and I have been together for 6 years and have never had sex.
He went on a vacation with a friend of his from out of town and it seems like they had a blast without me.
And now, he wants for this friend of his (29M) to move in with us soon.
Ah-HEM! I think I know why he doesn’t want to ever have sex with you and wants this guy to move in.
Kind of obvious Op that you are his…
BEARD! HIS BEARD! B-E-A-R-D!
This guy is IN THE CLOSET and only out of the closet on vacations. This isn’t just his friend, but his LOVER!
Also this is compounding the proof of it:
And whenever this friend of his asks him to do anything, he’ll do it without question where when I ask it’s always like pulling teeth.
Like what a significant other does when IN LOVE!
Hellooooooo!
And then this just confirms it further, that he’s REALLY excited about a second wedding but also:
he seems really excited about (always planning things, meeting with the coordinator, etc.)
Like come on! He’s like Will from “Will and Grace” in terms of IN THE CLOSET.
He married you to get his homophobic parents off his back and tricked you into marrying him.
Op, this guy is definitely gay!
I think you should tell her just to clear the air. You did tapdance on the line of being inappropriate, dependent on the expectations of fidelity in your relationship, but you controlled yourself well and didn't cheat, and I think that is commendable considering the large number of outright dogs in the world both male and female.
Why is going to this wedding worth fucking up your current thing? My suggestion is to not go and fully move on.
Tell her to go live with her boyfriend and go no contact. You deserve better.
I think OP's kid is older than mine, but dogs are also dada for some reason.
Quick update! We have a date on Saturday! I'm taking him to a movie. Any further suggestions on the date? ?
When you’re just now realizing that you are the side-piece
Yes i told her after the fact. I was chatting with a buddy and her yesterday casually about some investments and it slipped out.
It is all my personal money, we have no kids or dependents. I forgot to mention that.
Understand, where you are coming from.
When being younger I used to cook issues up internally until they would become unbearable from that pressure.
And then it generated that “we need to talk, like… yesterday!” stampeding all over the partner.
You can already help him take your own stress out of the situation. By not letting it cook up but speak it out really soon.