You are moving way to fast. Def pump the brakes . Really think about this.
Are you ready to date a woman with 5 kids? Are you ready to be a step father? Can you handle all the financial responsibility? Are the real dads in any of there lives ?
This so much to handle. Me personally all of this is ????. Plus she doesn’t have a reliable job with 5 kids!!!! Is she just living off the system and child support? If so that’s a big hell no from me and I would leave and never look back
So, is two months a little early to be talking about marriage? Yeah. But he’s also right in wanting to discuss what you want in your future. Not necessarily marriage to him, but marriage in general. I think your best course of action here is to talk to him about it. Tell him you do care about him, and if you are interested in marriage in general you can let him know that while you’re open to it in the future, you still feel like it’s too early in your current relationship to discuss it.
You don’t know him well enough to live with him, much less marry him. I think his willingness to jump the gun may also come from the age difference. Three years is by no means inappropriate, but it is more likely for a 25 year old to be thinking more about marriage than a 22 year old. Communicate, see how you both feel, and make sure he doesn’t have any expectations on a time limit for getting married. If he does, you may not be a match for each other right now.
Your marriage is a fraud, based on lies your husband told. If he had been honest with you, you never would have married him.
So, why would you stay married now to a person you wouldn’t have married in the first place?
Even if you don’t know the whole truth, what truth you do know is enough for you to know that you would have left.
So … leave.
It’s not the 1950s anymore. We no longer live in an age where you have to commit to unhappiness to keep up appearances with people who aren’t even in your marriage.
Get out, and give yourself a chance to find someone who will love you, and respect you, and treat you how you deserve to be treated.
It is a black and white issue though. Cheat, and you’re a bad person. End of story.
You are moving way to fast. Def pump the brakes . Really think about this.
Are you ready to date a woman with 5 kids? Are you ready to be a step father? Can you handle all the financial responsibility? Are the real dads in any of there lives ?
This so much to handle. Me personally all of this is ????. Plus she doesn’t have a reliable job with 5 kids!!!! Is she just living off the system and child support? If so that’s a big hell no from me and I would leave and never look back
So, is two months a little early to be talking about marriage? Yeah. But he’s also right in wanting to discuss what you want in your future. Not necessarily marriage to him, but marriage in general. I think your best course of action here is to talk to him about it. Tell him you do care about him, and if you are interested in marriage in general you can let him know that while you’re open to it in the future, you still feel like it’s too early in your current relationship to discuss it.
You don’t know him well enough to live with him, much less marry him. I think his willingness to jump the gun may also come from the age difference. Three years is by no means inappropriate, but it is more likely for a 25 year old to be thinking more about marriage than a 22 year old. Communicate, see how you both feel, and make sure he doesn’t have any expectations on a time limit for getting married. If he does, you may not be a match for each other right now.
That’s not really how that works
Updateme
Your marriage is a fraud, based on lies your husband told. If he had been honest with you, you never would have married him.
So, why would you stay married now to a person you wouldn’t have married in the first place?
Even if you don’t know the whole truth, what truth you do know is enough for you to know that you would have left.
So … leave.
It’s not the 1950s anymore. We no longer live in an age where you have to commit to unhappiness to keep up appearances with people who aren’t even in your marriage.
Get out, and give yourself a chance to find someone who will love you, and respect you, and treat you how you deserve to be treated.