At 31yo you should know that your partners problems are your problems too.
The issue with the radio is silly.
With your lack of empathy for your partner I think there's a lot more going on than the radio hobby. I suggest you wake up and listen to her very carefully.
Well then you have your answer. If he was too drunk to remember and can’t accept the possibility that he did act out while intoxicated; where do you see this friendship going? You’re both fighters, so sober fighting w both parties consenting is fine, but that’s not the problem. He can’t handle his alcohol well and refuses to accept that he can’t.
Start be restating what you did understand. That gives her the opportunity to address misconceptions
Excellent point
At 31yo you should know that your partners problems are your problems too.
The issue with the radio is silly.
With your lack of empathy for your partner I think there's a lot more going on than the radio hobby. I suggest you wake up and listen to her very carefully.
People get rejected, get over it, and then be genuine friends. He’s not been pining for her for 17 years; friendship isn’t a yikes.
sure, but don't let her. she gets you almost killed, then decides to be angry about it?
Well then you have your answer. If he was too drunk to remember and can’t accept the possibility that he did act out while intoxicated; where do you see this friendship going? You’re both fighters, so sober fighting w both parties consenting is fine, but that’s not the problem. He can’t handle his alcohol well and refuses to accept that he can’t.