Have one day a week totally dedicated to your GF. It could be split over some days but set in advance so that she knows that she has your ? % time and attention, but for those hours, you are all hers to do with as she wants. You need to have some severe time management juggling ahead.
OR
You are at a crossroads, you want that career, and at present, she's content to stay where she is. Tough choice, how much do you love her? If you stall your career, you will end up blaming her and split up later. Either she's with you on this journey, it's not forever as this is a time-bound situation until you establish your career, or she wants a simpler life with a BF that's available 24/7 and that my dude is not you.
The choice is yours, at present you can't be want she wants right now. Get the career, then look for a partner.
You work, and put a roof over his head, so you literally do everything for him.
Had you not told his age, he would sound like a toddler, and at least toddlers can entertain themselves.
Cut the dead weight, because I’m willing to bet your life would be much more on track if you weren’t supporting another person who contributes nothing.
Two options here. He was either warned by the university or a coworker to knock it off or lose his job. Or, he realized your true feelings and is intentionally cooling things off, as he should.
This won’t work out for you. Let it go, move on, see some people your age-even just socially as friends if you’re not ready to date. You’ll regret this later if you press on, I can promise you that much. It sounds harsh but I’m looking out for you.
Oh do be quiet.
You predicted the future! ?
No you owned it. Good communication very direct. His loss.
Looks like you have two choices:
Have one day a week totally dedicated to your GF. It could be split over some days but set in advance so that she knows that she has your ? % time and attention, but for those hours, you are all hers to do with as she wants. You need to have some severe time management juggling ahead.
OR
You are at a crossroads, you want that career, and at present, she's content to stay where she is. Tough choice, how much do you love her? If you stall your career, you will end up blaming her and split up later. Either she's with you on this journey, it's not forever as this is a time-bound situation until you establish your career, or she wants a simpler life with a BF that's available 24/7 and that my dude is not you.
The choice is yours, at present you can't be want she wants right now. Get the career, then look for a partner.
Keep doing that as it will keep you thinking. We can be easily blinded when in love to the partners faults
Then stop doing anything all together..
You work, and put a roof over his head, so you literally do everything for him.
Had you not told his age, he would sound like a toddler, and at least toddlers can entertain themselves.
Cut the dead weight, because I’m willing to bet your life would be much more on track if you weren’t supporting another person who contributes nothing.
Two options here. He was either warned by the university or a coworker to knock it off or lose his job. Or, he realized your true feelings and is intentionally cooling things off, as he should.
This won’t work out for you. Let it go, move on, see some people your age-even just socially as friends if you’re not ready to date. You’ll regret this later if you press on, I can promise you that much. It sounds harsh but I’m looking out for you.
You know who brings up rape? A rapist. Whether actual or hopeful, good people don’t “joke” about that.
Try to get out as quickly as you can ♥️