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Different strokes different folks man.
Honestly it sounds like your bf just wanted to spend time with his friend. It's perfectly normal and healthy for couples to have seperate friends that they spend time with.
Yeah it was totally my bad not asking for cash when we were building the house, I refused payment as I saw him a father figure at the time and wanted to show my loyalty to the family, at the time it was quite wholesome to work on the house for free.. the artworks were unexpected gifts over a 13 month period of no work.
And trying to save money back then on VAT has ultimately lost me money now so I'll just write those off as a bad investment..
The only thing I really wanted was my laptop so I could get to work setting up another business and I still haven't had a response asking for that one item. And I don't have funds to buy a new one with my current debt
I'll take this loss and keep my chin up with my doggo, only posted my story to Reddit as a way to vent and maybe someone else will think twice after reading this about their own situation.
Again thank you for your response, writing this down to someone who listened has helped put things into perspective
The right girl will get it. Keep being you.
You will never get back what was lost. Most people that work things out move on because they understand its all new. You both will have to accept this and learn to love the new people involved now. Its very hot to let go of the past.
Why are you so invested in what a cheater does with the person he cheated on you with? He is a piece of crap. He purposefully broke your relationship apart, cheated on you, left you, and now is in a relationship with someone else. He is not the dream person you portray him as. He is a selfish man-child that will cheat on the new person. Probably soonest as having a child is extremely challenging for a relationship. You need to get over this romanticized version of who this person is. He is a crap human and will ruin his new relationship as soon as the going gets tough. If you can't move on by yourself you need to find a therapist to help you. Nothing good will come from continuing to think of this person.
“Quite fond of my family” are you joking mate?
Divorce your wife before you cheat on her. You have carried on an emotional affair with this woman and the fact that you refuse to be open about this with your wife is proof of your guilt.
I’m wondering what intent they’re going to send nudes with…. The only possible thing I could think of that isn’t cheating is SW or medical reasons…..
Yes but not too much more tbh
whew the transphobia…. a lot of these comments did not pass the vibe check lol. people really will take anything as an excuse to spew their hatred. OP, take some time to think on it and maybe to talk to her, but if you are no longer attracted to her it’s okay to break up! you wouldn’t be doing anything wrong, and i’m sure she’ll be fine if you do
They’re her pictures. If she doesn’t want you to have them, don’t have them. Disrespecting your girlfriends wishes is already a bad sign. Also saying that you know she’s not going to break up with you even if you don’t, could lead to manipulation on your part down the road. Just delete the pictures my man!
I would hate if my partner asked this of me. And I absolutely hate that I have to ask this of him. There's just nothing comforting about either scenario, seems like.
Why not just reinforce your boundaries with no excuses? “I'll trust you to do the right thing, but if you cross this line, it's over.” If he crosses it, you have to follow through.
Get some self respect man. She's not the one.
We had a solid foundation; we were in love, happy, and secure. We have always supported one another. We established two rules: always communicate with one another and always use protection – because we didn't want to complicate things with to many dos and don’t.
So when you started dating her you were like a year and a half out from sleeping with one of your good friends?? That definitely seems like important information; especially if she had questions about it from the beginning. It sounds like she had questions that should have been answered 15 months ago.
You should have told her this yourself. What were you expecting to happen?
I will divert from the norm here and ask if he has gone to therapy or done anything for his own health in the last year? Financial constraints cause a lot of stress, men feel like they need to be the breadwinner and when that is taken away from them they spiral; society says men have to do things one way, and when they cant, it can eat at their self worth.
He could use therapy. Moving 4 hours away for a job under a family member sounds like he had to make a lot of internal concessions. Unfortunately you have been dragged along.
Enjoy your Christmas. Talk to him tomorrow. Get a divorce, dont get one, either way. Let him know a divorce will not fix his issues like he thinks it will.
Also you get therapy too. Everyone needs therapy. Therapy is great!
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plan b isn’t easy to take, especially for a woman who’s got hormonal imbalances. an abortion is not easy to get, physically or emotionally. you know what’s easy? slipping a condom on.
Um if you gf is a bit self-absorbed and the type who would gift you a calender with 12 months of her photos or by you stuff she likes, then yah, I can see her gifting you cufflinks with her initial bc she is self- absorbed. She may think it's cute bc she is marking her territory or so you'll think of her when you wear em.
Or it may be a re-gift.
Dude, either way, run.
If you have different ideas about zoning laws or capital gains, sure.
If you have different ideas about human rights, no.
You. Need. Therapy.
You need to unpack your incredibly sexist ideas about what men and women bring to a relationship or you’re going to end up sad and alone.
Bc you said this happened before and you still did it again? Maybe you need someone to “state the obvious” since experience isn't helping you
The new boyfriend design would be better.
It's up to both of you to practice safe sex and he flat out refuses.
Your partner is delusional. Before I read the whole thing I assumed it was similar to the American thing we do where we say we are Irish/English etc because of some distant great great great parents not literally your parents.
Sexual experimentation means just that. Experimenting. Usually when you discuss something like a threesome it means the couple and a third. This usually does not mean one partner singularly going somewhere out of town and getting intimate with a stranger. That leaves the other partner completely in the dark.
This is where things went wrong. I’m kind of surprised you aren’t aware of this. But he has left you unfortunately. He saw you wanted to not include him in your sexual experience and he left.
I guess. Notice how there was a communication breakdown? She probably banged the guy in the first day and told her BF how good and fun it was.
That's why in the second day it was all text. Easier to not show emotions that way while he was doing his clean exit. After doing it, he just ghosted her. Smart man.
I think of this as killing many birds with one stone. Your family has now learned you are gay, have a boyfriend, they learned not to barge into your home, and they have faced that you are an independent adult. All difficult conversations by themselves and you circumvented them all with a live action show!
OP, why are you subjecting yourself with this kind of abuse??? Please leave this woman ASAP. Your relationship is over. Never tolerate any kind of abuse, you deserve better.
Yeah you should have put the context in the OP.
It means “I'm taken”.
Yeah you should have put the context in the OP.
It means “I'm taken”.
and shes emotionally mature by running from her current relationship, hiding away, not communicating? He probably was capable of supporting her but she decided to go hide away and self loath instead of being a mature adult and talking through this with her boyfriend. She made him an option here, she wanted space now she got it in spades because of her actions
Both of those examples sound extreme. Healthy relationships don't include situations like those.
Be safe OP.
He should be considerate of you in where he leaves his “processing” though. Would he appreciate finding the equivalent by you? Either keep it explicitly private (eg a diary, where there is a clear invasion of privacy if you read it) or get rid of it once he's done. Leaving this stuff just sitting out on a table is inconsiderate, or intentional.
You have to talk to her and decide if you can forgive her after hearing her out or not. There’s nothing else to do at this moment
Not all women can squirt. And majority of squirting you've seen in porn videos are fake. They just put some thing filled with water inside and use their muscles to squeeze water out of it to resemble squirting. So stop watching so much unrealistic porn videos and just focus on your partner.
Its sad for sure but OP doesn't seem sad. Only in that they are (I think) seeking support for their actions. Some people to say, hiss mom was wrong.
OPs mom gave her best years and is left with people that would rather be with others. Although it seems painful, this decision by OP to me indicates where his loyalty lies. The decision not to speak to her son might have been less important to her than the knowledge that her son would choose his father over her.
Now at least, she can rely on herself and hopefully she has the strength to form greater bonds with others.
It is more difficult as you get older though and the pain that your family just don't have your back must be immense. Though, many people find this out in matters of money and attraction.
Nobody said “rule.” More like something to consider.
You'll create a lot of bad feelings that can disadvantage you in the divorce if you tell him on his birthday. Wait two days or so after it.
Think about it: his attorney, the judge, and all your friends and family are going to hear about it if you do it on his birthday.
Good luck.
I second other posters advocating for a wrist-bound fitness tracker to host vibrating alarms. I use Amazfit, my SO uses Fitbit. Alternate wristbands are available for many of the models, so one is not stuck with the rubbery original.
Both brands are available both live and in common retail stores.
You also shouldn't subject him to you constantly flip-floping between him and your sister. If you get back with Dan, you should be prepared to cut your sister off.
Well that’s not the only reason. But it’s one of the many
Oh man, I’ve been with my partner for going on eight years and no proposal. Reading these things are a bit too real and uncomfortable.
I’m glad that weed works for you and your symptoms but that’s not really the point. Weed can have various different effects and in some people, it causes paranoia, hallucinations and anxiety. Different dispensaries have different product and each product can work differently. Which is why it isn’t recommended that you smoke a blunt before drinking or going to work. Painkillers also have heavy warning that you shouldn’t take them and operate a car or any kind of machinery.
Besides that, as someone who does smoke on my days off, I can very easily tell you how delusional lots of smokers are. They think that you can’t get addicted and there’s nothing wrong with being high 24/7. Lots of the comments here show that same sentiment. As if you can’t criticize someone for going to work high because it’s weed.
Unless OP’s girlfriend has debilitating pain, heavy depression or anxiety, there is zero medical need to be consistently high. At that point, it’s a problem.
NYC going hot
Agree, no pooch in the bed especially during sex.
The joke goes:
Bf: you smell down there
You: it’s your upper lip
You should’ve even fuck with someone that doesn’t brush their teeth..bad oral hygiene and I wouldn’t even want that bacteria near me. ?? you are worse for staying with a guy then admitting he does this ???
I've worked in this career for coming up on twenty years here. In my experience men are filthier than women by far. For example I've never had to scrub clumps of caked on fecal matter from a capable women's asshole vs numerous men. And I have had multiple male patients tell me they don't wipe themselves because it's “gay”.
I'm not counting migrant populations or those with mental health crises, but the population that can do daily needs without any aid.
I was just literally thinking of that post too.
i wouldn't consider this a dealbreaker personally. You simply won't be communicating much with her family and friends much, unless you learn French or they learn English.
she just said “i dont like asking his help”
Too bad.
This is not your responsibility.
If it makes you feel better, it’s often an act. A lot of them know how to talk but are hiding some pretty awful attitudes toward women.
Thank you so much for your suggestion, I'll definitely try this when I can.
Jim’s fucking your girlfriend.
That's a good start.
Someday in the future try and think on separating love and attraction.
Therapy is a great start. I have so many questions, but really I'd like some information. You call yourself a narcissist, emotionally abusive, all of that. And you call him misogynistic. Can we have some examples of those?
Only reason I ask is because without examples, it's very hot to say whether you were emotionally abusive or if you were gaslighted into thinking so. Or he was actually misogynistic or if he was actually ok. You know?
This is wrong on so many different levels, I say you need DNA tests and to lawyer up. Hope you had a prenup.
If you can empathize this much, you should tell her. She'd be more willing to listen to you if you expressed that you went through the same thing.
That's the best excuse he could come up with? What a loser.
Your husband should mind his own business, having friends that are poly doesn’t turn you poly. My husband and I are monogamous and we have several friends who are poly. It has never impacted our relationship in any way at all. He sounds extremely insecure.
fuckin-a-this-right-here. Spillin' business to the whole damn world like he didn't just make up these “rules” on the spot.
fuckin-a-this-right-here. Spillin' business to the whole damn world like he didn't just make up these “rules” on the spot.
fuckin-a-this-right-here. Spillin' business to the whole damn world like he didn't just make up these “rules” on the spot.
She’s a liar and a cheat. Of course she’s fucking him.
Silly if you to be mad at yourself for discovering the cheating.
sooo… you cheated on him twice. Hm.
Well, other than that it seems unclear what both of you really want for the future. It doesn't seem to be that you guys are on the same page.
With everything that happened, you've kind of set it up this relationship's downfall. But even if you hadn't, if he would have wanted kids… and you don't…. He would have grown to resent you in this relationship either way.
So… I don't know. I don't think it had much of a chance to begin with at this point.
When I graduated from university I didn’t have the money to pay for my cap and gown. I was estranged from my family (and continue to be) and I felt bad asking my in-laws for $100 to pay for it since they had already taken me in and I wouldn’t have graduated if it wasn’t for them. I thought to myself that it wasn’t a big deal and that I’d go to graduation when I finish my masters. Half-way through my master’s I got really sick. Sick to the point where I had to stop school and quit my job. Four years have passed and I haven’t been able to go back to school or work. In fact, I’m only getting worse.
Don’t skip your graduation. It’s a huge accomplishment and you’ll regret not going. You deserve this. Your brother will still be married after the graduation ceremony. You have your whole life to see your brother be married. It’s okay.
This is also coming from someone who is having a wedding in August (we were waiting for me not to be sick anymore, but since that’s not gonna happen anytime soon we’re doing it now) and whose sister and BIL said they can’t see me get married, not because they are busy or anything, they just simply don’t want to. Only two people on my side of the family will be there and no, they’re not my parents. It’s my cousin and his wife.
If your family can’t support you graduating and won’t even celebrate your brother’s marriage AND your graduation simultaneously, screw them.